Tag: #Self-Care

It wasn’t the holiday that traumatised you — it was the person.

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Rebuilding joy around holidays that were once ruined is absolutely possible, and often, it becomes even more beautiful than before because it’s conscious, intentional, and fully yours.You’re not just “getting over” the past — you’re reclaiming territory that used to belong to someone else’s chaos. Think of this as taking your holidays back, and rewriting the emotional script. Here’s… Read More It wasn’t the holiday that traumatised you — it was the person.

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The Kindness Trap: When “Helpful” Becomes “Used-Up”

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

It starts innocently enough.You help. You lend. You sew. You bake. You listen. You fix. Before long, you’ve become the neighbourhood “Oh, she can do it!” “She’s got a sewing machine!”“She’s so kind — she’ll help you.”“Ask her, she’s the best!” And yes — you are the best.Until the day comes when you need help, and suddenly… tumbleweeds.The… Read More The Kindness Trap: When “Helpful” Becomes “Used-Up”

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💎 1. What Self-Respect Really Means

Self-respect isn’t arrogance or pride — it’s self-recognition.It’s knowing: “My time, energy, and love are valuable. I don’t have to beg to be treated well.” Psychologically, it’s the ability to hold your boundaries even when someone tries to guilt, shame, or confuse you into lowering them.You can still be kind — but you stop being a resource for… Read More 💎 1. What Self-Respect Really Means

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The Golden Rule

That principle — often called the golden rule — is simple on the surface but incredibly rich when you look at it through psychology, neuroscience, and lived experience. 🌿 Here’s a reflective expansion: The Core of It Treating others as you would like to be treated yourself is really about empathy and integrity. It asks us to… Read More The Golden Rule

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How to Recognize When You’re Being Pulled Into Head Games

Before you can set boundaries, it’s important to become aware of the subtle ways these manipulations sneak in. Here are some signs to watch for: How to Set Boundaries With Someone Who Plays Head Games or Seeks Attention Through Manipulation Why Setting Boundaries is So Hard — And Why It’s Worth It Boundaries can feel… Read More How to Recognize When You’re Being Pulled Into Head Games

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A Little Bit of Pampering Today… Because You’re Worth It

Today was a gentle reminder: sometimes, we don’t need a reason to take care of ourselves — being human is reason enough. I gave myself a little pampering today. Nothing extravagant, but deeply intentional. A soft robe, warm water, a slow morning, my favorite scent lingering in the air… the kind of indulgence that feels like… Read More A Little Bit of Pampering Today… Because You’re Worth It

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“When Hospitality Is Met With Entitlement: You Don’t Owe Anyone Space in Your Peace”

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Opening your home to someone is one of the most generous acts of trust and kindness. It’s more than just a roof over someone’s head — it’s offering warmth, safety, food, comfort, and a piece of your world. But what happens when that kindness is met with criticism, entitlement, and disrespect? What happens when someone walks through your… Read More “When Hospitality Is Met With Entitlement: You Don’t Owe Anyone Space in Your Peace”

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