In a lesser-known series of experiments within Social Psychology, researchers explored a simple but uncomfortable question: What do people do when they believe no one is watching? What they found challenges the comforting belief that cruelty is rare or limited to “bad people.” When anonymity increases, accountability drops. And when accountability drops, a small but significant number… Read More Cruelty When No One’s Watching
🧍♂️ 1. Individual grooming (one perpetrator) This is the most common pattern. What it looks like: Key signs: 👉 This is typically behaviour-driven and opportunistic, not organised. 🕸️ 2. Coordinated exploitation (networks or groups) This is more serious and less common, but does exist in investigations. What it looks like: Key signs: 👉 This is typically treated as organised… Read More Individual grooming vs coordinated exploitation (how to recognise the difference)
Explore Freud, Adler, and Jung’s psychological theories on what drives human behaviour—past trauma, purpose, and individuation—and how these ideas explain healing, relationships, and personal growth.… Read More Freud, Adler, and Jung: Understanding Human Behavior
This series explores human behaviour, relationships, and emotional resilience through the work of Alfred Adler—one of the first psychologists to focus not just on what is “wrong” with people, but on how they can grow, connect, and find meaning. Each piece builds on the last, moving from origins, to patterns, to healing, and now to… Read More Understanding Human Behaviour: An Adlerian Series
This collection of lectures and essays by Alfred Adler brings together one of his most important ideas: That the desire for superiority must be balanced by social interest. Adler did not believe that striving to improve oneself was wrong. In fact, he saw it as a natural and necessary part of being human. We all want… Read More Superiority and Social Interest (Posthumous, 1964)
Most people understand fairness. They understand balance — giving, taking, contributing, respecting others. But there are some individuals who operate very differently. They show up when something is free.They are present when someone else is paying.They benefit where they can — regardless of relationships, values, or integrity. And often, they will align themselves with people… Read More When People Take Advantage: The Psychology of Entitlement and Lack of Integrity
And then there is another layer that rarely gets mentioned: the people orbiting the process. In many long-running negotiations, there is a secondary field of pressure — family members, advisors, or stakeholders who are not directly negotiating, but are still emotionally invested in the outcome. They are not driving the process, but they are affected… Read More Act Five: The Family Waiting Room Effect
There is a thread that runs through all of this work—one that connects perception, survival, healing, and ultimately, self-trust. At the beginning, there is confusion. The experience of false accusations, projection, and emotional distortion. Psychology helps us name some of it—projection, cognitive dissonance, attachment patterns—but naming it does not immediately make it easier to live… Read More What Happens Over Time
Psychology calls it epistemic injustice—when someone’s lived experience is dismissed because it is considered “too emotional,” “too dramatic,” or simply “too unbelievable.” But disbelief does not erase reality. In fact, neuroscience tells us something very different. The brain and body register experience whether others validate it or not. The nervous system responds to tone, tension, unpredictability,… Read More Epistemic Injustice
The Neuroscience and Psychology of Denial It should not be necessary to repeatedly present court orders, DASH risk assessments, psychological reports, medical evidence, witness statements, and legal outcomes just to be believed. When there is documented evidence—when professionals, courts, and specialists have already assessed the situation—the expectation should be understanding and support. Yet too often,… Read More Why Victims Should Not Have to Keep Proving the Truth
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 