A narcissist refers to an individual who exhibits narcissistic traits or has been diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a mental health condition characterized by a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. While many people may display some narcissistic traits, individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder exhibit these traits to an extent that significantly interferes with their relationships and functioning.
It is truly astonishing how quickly some people can switch from one extreme to another. One moment, they are playing the victim, accusing you of lies and distortions, twisting reality to suit their narrative. The next, they are professing their love, saying they want you back, pulling every emotional string to manipulate the situation. And,… Read More The Flip-Flop of Manipulation
Professional doctors, psychologists, and therapists are highly trained in recognizing personality disorders, manipulative behaviors, and abusive tendencies. This is exactly why abusers—especially those with deeply ingrained patterns—avoid therapy at all costs. Deep down, they know that any real professional will see right through them. Why Abusers Avoid Therapy & Help How Professionals Spot These Personalities a Mile Off… Read More Why Abusers Avoid Therapy & Help
We’ve all encountered them—those individuals who are so wrapped up in their own narratives that they fail to acknowledge or reciprocate genuine care, love, or empathy. No matter what’s happening in your life, they always manage to redirect the focus back to themselves. When you need support, they’re either absent or use the moment to… Read More The “Victim Mentality”
The Illusion of Love: How Toxic Exes Weaponize Affection to Manipulate Love is often seen as a force of healing, growth, and connection. However, when an ex-partner claims to still love someone while engaging in toxic behaviors such as stalking, harassment, or financial abuse, their words become nothing more than a performance. These actions reveal… Read More The Performance of Victimhood
Claiming to Still Love Someone as a Cover for Abuse: The Manipulation Behind False Affection When an abusive person tells friends and family that they still love their former partner, it often serves as a calculated tactic rather than a genuine expression of care. They use these declarations not to show real love but to… Read More The False Narrative of ‘Still Loving’ Someone
What Is Triangulation? Triangulation is a psychological manipulation tactic used by narcissists, abusers, and other controlling individuals to distort reality, maintain control, and prevent accountability. It involves using a third party to influence how others perceive them—and, in turn, how they perceive their victims. Instead of addressing issues directly, manipulators create a web of misinformation,… Read More Triangulation: How Manipulators Control Perception and Isolate Victims
What Is Impression Management? Impression management is a psychological strategy used to influence how others perceive us. While everyone engages in some level of impression management—such as dressing well for a job interview or curating social media profiles—manipulative individuals like narcissists and sociopaths use this tactic to an extreme degree. Their goal is not just… Read More Impression Management: How Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Manipulators Control Perception
The Psychology Behind How Abusers Reset for Their Next Victim When an abuser drops their old social circle and reinvents themselves, they aren’t growing or changing—they’re strategically resetting the cycle of abuse. This isn’t accidental; it’s a calculated process based on manipulation, control, and deception. Understanding the psychological mechanisms behind this can help survivors recognize patterns, protect themselves, and, in… Read More The Psychology Behind How Abusers Reset for Their Next Victim
Dealing with a partner who lacks empathy or compassion can be incredibly draining, frustrating, and even damaging to your well-being. It often feels like you’re in a one-sided relationship where your emotions, needs, and struggles are dismissed or even ridiculed. If you’re in this situation, here are some important steps to consider: 1. Recognize the… Read More Zero Empathy
A narcissist’s life is a revolving door of “supplies”—people they use for wealth, validation, and status. They don’t seek love or deep connection. They seek resources and admiration to maintain their illusion of success. 💰 They need someone to fund their lifestyle.🪞 They need someone to reflect their “greatness” back at them.🎭 They need an audience to keep up their image.… Read More The Narcissist’s Endless Search for a New Supply
