Tag: MENTAL HEALTH

Mental health refers to a person’s emotional, psychological, and social well-being, encompassing the ability to handle stress, relate to others, make decisions, and navigate the challenges of life. It influences how individuals think, feel, and act, contributing to the overall balance and quality of their lives. Mental health is essential at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.

Why Post-Trauma Women Attract Emotionally Immature Men

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The Neuroscience & Psychology Behind This Pattern After trauma — especially relational trauma — a woman’s nervous system becomes highly sensitised to emotional cues. This creates both profound emotional intelligence and temporary vulnerability. And emotionally immature men are drawn to that combination. 1. Trauma Creates Emotional Depth — Which Immature Men Seek Post-trauma women often develop: Emotionally immature men lack these… Read More Why Post-Trauma Women Attract Emotionally Immature Men

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Where Women Go After Traumatic Divorce

And What They Are Truly Looking For in a Partner After a traumatic divorce — especially one involving emotional abuse, control, betrayal, or prolonged stress — a woman’s entire nervous system reorganises. She is no longer seeking excitement. She is seeking safety, peace, and restoration of self. 1. Where Women Go First: Inward Before turning outward, most… Read More Where Women Go After Traumatic Divorce

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Why Some Men Become More Controlling With Age Instead of Calmer

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The Neuroscience & Psychology Behind This Shift There is a common belief that age brings wisdom, calm, and emotional maturity. Sometimes it does. But in other cases, age intensifies control, rigidity, anger, and dominance. The difference lies in how the nervous system adapted to earlier life experiences. 1. Age Amplifies Existing Personality Structures A core psychological truth:… Read More Why Some Men Become More Controlling With Age Instead of Calmer

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Why Men Seek Caregiving-Based Cultures Later in Life

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

And How Power vs Safety Motives Differ This shift is not random, not shallow, and not primarily sexual. It reflects deep neurological and psychological changes that occur with age, trauma, and life experience. PART 1 Why Men Seek Caregiving-Based Cultures Later in Life 1. The Nervous System Changes With Age As men age, their brains gradually shift… Read More Why Men Seek Caregiving-Based Cultures Later in Life

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Why Control-Based Personalities Escalate Sexual Threats

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The Neuroscience & Psychology Behind This Behaviour When someone repeatedly escalates sexual threats — suggesting replacement, sexual outsourcing, or access to others — this is not about desire. It is about power regulation. Sex becomes a tool of control, not a form of connection. 1. Control-Based Nervous Systems Fear Vulnerability Healthy intimacy requires: For control-based personalities, vulnerability feels… Read More Why Control-Based Personalities Escalate Sexual Threats

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When They Repeatedly Threaten to Replace You

The Neuroscience & Psychology of Power, Control, and Emotional Evasion When someone repeatedly says they will go abroad to “find someone who will do anything and everything for them,” discusses it openly with friends, searches flights and accommodation, and then denies it when confronted, this is not casual talk. This is psychological positioning. And neuroscience explains exactly… Read More When They Repeatedly Threaten to Replace You

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“I’m Better on My Own”

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Why People Tell You Early — and Why We Don’t Listen There is a sentence people sometimes offer early in connection: “I’m better on my own.”“I’m not good in relationships.”“I can’t really do commitment.”“I’m not built for emotional closeness.” These are not throwaway lines. They are micro-confessions. Psychology calls this pre-emptive disclosure.Neuroscience calls it threat discharge. It is… Read More “I’m Better on My Own”

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The Psychology & Neuroscience of Love-Bombing

What it is, why it works, and what it often predicts Love-bombing is the rapid delivery of intense affection, attention, praise, promises, and emotional closeness early in a relationship. It feels intoxicating, validating, and deeply bonding. But neuroscience shows this isn’t accidental — it is neurochemical manipulation, whether conscious or unconscious. 1. Dopamine & Attachment Hijacking Love-bombing… Read More The Psychology & Neuroscience of Love-Bombing

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Beware the Family Who Worships Image Over Integrity

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

A Neuroscience and Psychology Perspective Beware entering a family system that places image, status, and appearance above truth, ethics, and emotional responsibility. Because sooner or later, the very moral code they use to impress the outside world will be turned inward — and used against you. At first, such families can appear impressive.Successful. Respected. Polished.They… Read More Beware the Family Who Worships Image Over Integrity

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When Accusation Becomes Confession: A Reflection on Projection, Power, and Truth

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

There is a particular kind of accusation that reveals more about the accuser than the accused.Especially when the charge is money-grabbing — delivered loudly, publicly, and without a shred of evidence — by someone whose own history contains proven financial crimes. This is not irony.This is psychology. When people point fingers, it is worth remembering the old… Read More When Accusation Becomes Confession: A Reflection on Projection, Power, and Truth

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