Tag: MENTAL HEALTH

Mental health refers to a person’s emotional, psychological, and social well-being, encompassing the ability to handle stress, relate to others, make decisions, and navigate the challenges of life. It influences how individuals think, feel, and act, contributing to the overall balance and quality of their lives. Mental health is essential at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.

Real-World Behavioral Examples – Dark Triad Traits

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

1. Machiavellianism — The Strategic Manipulator Core pattern: Calculated, deceptive, emotionally detached, controlling. Common behaviors: Relationship examples: Typical impact on partners:Confusion, self-doubt, emotional exhaustion, anxiety, hyper-vigilance 2. Narcissism — The Ego-Centered Taker Core pattern: Entitlement, superiority, validation-seeking, lack of empathy. Common behaviors: Relationship examples: Typical impact on partners:Low self-esteem, emotional neglect, walking on eggshells, loneliness 3. Psychopathy — The Emotionally… Read More Real-World Behavioral Examples – Dark Triad Traits

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What Makes a Person Cruel? A Psychological Perspective

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Cruelty is not just about actions — it is about the mindset, patterns, and unresolved inner dynamics that drive harm. Psychologists identify several key factors that contribute to cruelty: 1️⃣ Early Life and Attachment Trauma 2️⃣ Lack of Empathy 3️⃣ Need for Control and Power 4️⃣ Personality and Behavioral Traits 5️⃣ Learned Behavior and Social… Read More What Makes a Person Cruel? A Psychological Perspective

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Emotional Neglect

Emotional neglect occurs when: Writing letters pouring your heart out — and having them ignored or thrown away — is a classic example of emotional neglect. Psychological meaning: “My inner world does not matter.” Over time, this deeply impacts: 2️⃣ Unidirectional Emotional Labour This describes the effort of emotional expression and relationship maintenance happening only on one side. You… Read More Emotional Neglect

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How Survivors Rebuild Identity After Psychological Erosion

Psychological erosion happens slowly. It is not one event — it is thousands of small moments of: Over time, the nervous system adapts to survival, and identity becomes secondary. 🧩 Phase 1: Survival Identity (Before Healing) When someone lives in chronic emotional stress, the brain prioritises safety over authenticity. This creates a survival self: Neurologically: So identity slowly erodes: You stop… Read More How Survivors Rebuild Identity After Psychological Erosion

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The Four Horsemen of Relationship Breakdown (Gottman Method)

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

John Gottman identified four communication patterns that predict relationship failure with over 90% accuracy.They are called The Four Horsemen because once they dominate a relationship, emotional safety collapses. These four patterns are: 1️⃣ Criticism – Attacking the person, not the behaviour What it sounds like: Psychological impact: Criticism attacks identity, not actions.It tells the nervous system: “You are the problem.” Neuropsychology: Criticism activates… Read More The Four Horsemen of Relationship Breakdown (Gottman Method)

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Neuroscience & Psychology Perspective – living in a parallel universe

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

1. Cognitive Dissonance & Denial Systems (on their side) If his relatives are still sending cards addressed to Mr & Mrs, 17 months after separation, this strongly suggests: In simple terms: Their brains are protecting them from discomfort by freezing reality in time. 2. Family System Psychology — “Homeostasis” In family psychology, systems resist change. When a long-term… Read More Neuroscience & Psychology Perspective – living in a parallel universe

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🌿 How to Tell If Someone Truly Sees You

This is an essential insight for deep, meaningful connections, and it’s closely tied to everything we’ve been exploring about emotional freedom, intimacy, and being truly seen. 💛 Here’s a clear breakdown of how to tell if someone truly sees you — not just superficially, but at your emotional core. 1. They Notice the Subtle, Not Just the Obvious… Read More 🌿 How to Tell If Someone Truly Sees You

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🌿 Why Emotionally Unavailable People Cannot Truly See Others

This is a deep and important psychological truth, and understanding it can bring enormous clarity, peace, and emotional release. Because once you truly grasp this, you stop taking being unseen personally — and that changes everything. 1. Because They Are Disconnected From Their Own Inner World Emotionally unavailable people are not fully connected to themselves. They: If someone cannot access their… Read More 🌿 Why Emotionally Unavailable People Cannot Truly See Others

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