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Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that encompasses a range of feelings, attitudes, and behaviors. It can be experienced in various forms, including romantic love, familial love, platonic love, and self-love. Here are some key aspects of love:

When They Try to Destroy You… From 18 Months Away: A Survivor’s Guide to Laughing in the Face of Distance Drama

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Let’s be real. You left the building 18 months ago. You packed your bag, you waved goodbye, you moved on. And yet… somehow, some very determined human being decided that your life is still their personal playground. Cue the distant chaos. Threats. Gossip. Family drama. Lawyer letters. Court summons that seem to appear like magic. The occasional… Read More When They Try to Destroy You… From 18 Months Away: A Survivor’s Guide to Laughing in the Face of Distance Drama

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Confusion, Mixed Signals & Messages That Don’t Make Sense

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment

Let’s cut through the noise. You’re not confused because you “misread it.” You’re confused because someone else isn’t showing up clearly. Hot one day, cold the next. Sweet in words, distant in action. Plans made and then canceled. That’s not a glitch—it’s mixed signals. And mixed signals? They’re a choice. Not a mistake. Here’s the truth you… Read More Confusion, Mixed Signals & Messages That Don’t Make Sense

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Confusion, Mixed Signals & Misinterpreted Messages: What They Really Mean

In today’s world of constant messaging, instant replies, and digital connection, communication should feel easier than ever. So why does it so often feel… confusing? Many people come to me feeling emotionally drained, caught in a cycle of analysing texts, rereading conversations, and trying to decode what someone really means. The truth is, confusion in communication is… Read More Confusion, Mixed Signals & Misinterpreted Messages: What They Really Mean

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1. Natural Lovers

Signs: Red flags: Usually very few—sometimes they can take their natural gift for granted and assume you feel the same way always. Energy investment: Low friction, high reward. These relationships often feel “easy” but still require mutual respect. 2. Those Who Work at Love Signs: Red flags: If the effort stops or feels performative, it can become exhausting. Watch… Read More 1. Natural Lovers

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Taking a Break from Dating: When Your Heart and Sanity Need a Timeout

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Dating can be exhausting. Between swiping, messaging, and decoding profiles, even the most enthusiastic romantics can feel like they’ve run a marathon. Sometimes, the healthiest choice isn’t matching—you guessed it—it’s taking a break. Why Taking a Break Is Totally Okay Signs You Might Need a Dating Break How to Take a Break Without Feeling Guilty Funny… Read More Taking a Break from Dating: When Your Heart and Sanity Need a Timeout

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Why Some People Say “Long-Term” on Dating Sites When They Just Want a Hookup

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

It’s frustrating—and confusing—when someone claims they’re looking for a serious relationship but clearly just wants casual fun. Understanding why this happens can help you protect your time and emotions. 1️⃣ The “Attraction First” Approach Some people know that claiming long-term intentions will attract more interest. They may not be ready for commitment, but they want attention or… Read More Why Some People Say “Long-Term” on Dating Sites When They Just Want a Hookup

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How to Tell if Someone Is Authentic and Telling the Truth

In dating, one of the biggest challenges isn’t meeting people—it’s knowing whether they’re genuine. Words can be convincing, charm can be persuasive, but authenticity always reveals itself through patterns. If you want to protect your time, energy, and emotions, here’s how to recognise whether someone is truly being real with you. 🔍 1. Words and Actions… Read More How to Tell if Someone Is Authentic and Telling the Truth

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