The devastating consequences of domestic abuse extend far beyond the individuals directly involved. Ignoring or downplaying past abuse is a dangerous practice, especially when it comes to new partners, children, and even bystanders who may unknowingly find themselves in harm’s way. Domestic violence is not just a series of isolated incidents; it’s a deeply entrenched… Read More Domestic Abuse is Rarely an Isolated Incident
Domestic abuse thrives in secrecy. When families cover up abuse, minimize its severity, or protect the abuser, they become enablers—allowing the cycle of violence to continue. This is especially true in cases of serial domestic abusers—those with a history of abuse across multiple relationships. When there is a pattern of abuse across two or more marriages, it cannot be ignored.… Read More Serial Domestic Abusers: A Pattern That Can’t Be Overlooked
Strangulation is one of the most dangerous forms of domestic violence. Even if you survive the attack, the effects can be immediate, delayed, and even fatal days or weeks later. It is not just another form of assault—it is a clear sign that an abuser has the intent and capacity to kill. This is why reporting strangulation… Read More Why You Must Always Report Strangulation: It’s Life-Threatening
When someone attempts to strangle you and then says, “I could have killed you, but I didn’t,” it is a chilling and deliberate act of psychological and physical abuse. This statement is not just a reflection of what happened—it is a form of intimidation, power, and control. Courts, psychologists, and domestic violence experts recognize this as a serious… Read More What This Statement Really Means
Strangulation is taken extremely seriously in domestic violence cases due to its high lethality and strong correlation with future homicide risk. Courts and legal systems in many countries recognize strangulation as a severe form of domestic abuse, often classifying it as a felony rather than a misdemeanor. Here’s how it is typically viewed: 1. Strangulation… Read More Why Courts Are So Strict on Strangulation
Leaving an abusive relationship is often the beginning of a journey toward safety, but unfortunately, it can also trigger an escalation of dangerous behaviors from the abuser. The risks you’ve outlined are very real, and in some cases, they can be even more severe after the separation than during the relationship. Let’s take a closer look at financial… Read More Legal and Financial Retaliation
Lawyers, solicitors, and judges are highly trained to spot deception, projection, and manipulation. In court, abusers often think they can talk their way out of things just like they do in their personal lives—but legal professionals see right through them, especially when the evidence doesn’t match their twisted narrative. Why Abusers Struggle in Legal Settings Why This Must Be… Read More Why Abusers Struggle in Legal Settings
It has taken five long months to come to terms with the staggering reality of what has transpired—the lies, the distortions, the smear campaign, the silence, and the sheer brutality and cruelty of those involved. Time, they say, is a healer, and with the support of two psychologists, a psychiatrist, a court legal team, and… Read More Domestic Violence Advocacy
Yes, unless they are held accountable and undergo serious intervention, abusers who strangle will repeat this behavior—and it often escalates to even more extreme violence. Why Do They Escalate With Each New Partner? 🚩 They Test Boundaries & Learn What They Can Get Away With 🚩 Each Relationship Becomes More Extreme 🚩 Strangulation is Often a Step Toward Homicide 🚩 Abusers… Read More Walking Time Bomb
If you are in an isolated area in a foreign country, unable to speak the language, and your abuser has taken away your passport, car keys, and access to money, then you are in an extremely high-risk situation. This is not just domestic violence—this is coercive control and entrapment. It is a dangerous hostage-like scenario where they are… Read More Increase their power—so they can escalate abuse with no consequences
