Focusing on Wealth, Not Well-Being: When a family’s priority is wealth, members may feel their role is simply to “wait it out” rather than actively care for the relative in need. This leads to a stark detachment where elderly members are seen as sources of eventual inheritance rather than as family members deserving of time, empathy, or care.

Eroding Trust and Relationship Quality: When elderly relatives sense this detachment, trust within the family erodes. The elderly family member may feel that love is conditional or that they’re valuable only when they’re a source of wealth, not as a person with needs, feelings, and a lifetime of memories to share.… Read More “not my responsibility”