Category: #therapy

Giving yourself time — and finding the right therapy — changes everything.

When you’ve spent decades being told you’re guessing, overthinking, getting it wrong, or imagining things, you eventually stop trusting your own judgement. Not because it’s flawed — but because you’ve been trained to doubt it. You start second-guessing your instincts.You question your memory.You wonder if you are the problem. Then you begin the right kind of therapy.… Read More Giving yourself time — and finding the right therapy — changes everything.

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True relationships

Interestingly, people tend to put more effort into preserving what they’re genuinely afraid of losing. It’s unfortunate that sometimes, despite love or affection, we hold onto relationships where we don’t feel genuinely valued or respected. We settle for less, knowing deep down that the energy and commitment we receive isn’t equal to what we give or to what they dedicate to what they truly care about.… Read More True relationships

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Survival

At the end of the day, honoring yourself is not selfish; it’s essential. When you choose to leave a toxic relationship, you’re making a statement that your life matters, that your happiness matters, and that your well-being is not negotiable. You’re affirming that you are worthy of kindness, respect, and a love that nurtures your soul rather than drains it.

It’s okay to put yourself first. It’s okay to prioritize your own needs over the chaos of someone else’s struggles. It’s okay to walk away from a love that asks you to compromise your truth, your peace, and your sense of self. Choosing yourself, even when it hurts, is not only an act of courage—it’s an act of radical love for the person who needs it most: you.… Read More Survival

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What is your digital footprint?

Your digital footprint is more than just a record of your online activities—it’s a reflection of your identity in the digital world. While you can’t completely eliminate your digital footprint, you can take steps to manage it more effectively. Being mindful of the data you share and the traces you leave behind will help you protect your privacy, reduce the risks of identity theft, and safeguard your reputation.

Remember, every click, post, and interaction you make online contributes to a broader picture of who you are. Taking control of that narrative not only helps you protect your personal information but also allows you to shape how you are perceived in the digital age.… Read More What is your digital footprint?

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What Does It Mean to Live Authentically in Integrity?

Living authentically and maintaining integrity in all areas of life is a noble aspiration, yet it can be challenging in a world that often rewards masks and facades. To be the same person in public as you are in private requires a level of courage, self-awareness, and vulnerability that many of us strive for but may find difficult to achieve consistently. Let’s explore what it means to live authentically in integrity, why it matters, and how we can cultivate this way of being in our daily lives.… Read More What Does It Mean to Live Authentically in Integrity?

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Intrinsic Motivation: The Catalyst for Real Change

Neuroscience supports this idea by showing how the brain responds differently to intrinsic versus extrinsic motivation. When someone is internally motivated, the brain’s reward system releases dopamine, which enhances feelings of satisfaction and encourages the person to continue their efforts. This creates a positive feedback loop, where each small success reinforces the desire to keep moving forward. In contrast, when people are driven by external forces, the reward system may not be as strongly activated, making it harder to sustain their efforts over time.… Read More Intrinsic Motivation: The Catalyst for Real Change

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