🏛️ Legal and policy responses 👮♀️ Recent arrests and charges 🧑⚖️ Court decisions and sentencing 📉 Broader trends and concerns 🌍 Context from broader reporting Recent partnerships in the U.S. aim to support survivors through technology like free entry cameras, which can both aid safety and help enforce orders of protection. In Spain and Europe, government… Read More Ongoing incidents and trends
Lover, Liar, Predator tells the stories of several women who were coerced, abused and raped by a man called Aaron Swan over his decades-long career. He was 17 when he approached Natalie at a party. She was 17 too but, as a devout Christian with a very protected upbringing, effectively younger and highly vulnerable to… Read More Lover, Liar, Predator
Here’s a clear, structured breakdown of neurodivergence, especially in the context of trauma, abuse, and systems of harassment or coercion: 1. Definition Neurodivergence is a term that describes variations in the human brain and nervous system that affect: Common examples include: Neurodivergence is not inherently a disorder; it is a difference in cognitive wiring. 2. Key characteristics 3. Neurodivergence and abuse/harassment… Read More Neurodivergence
Common misconception that women gaining independence “causes” more men to be gay. Sexual orientation isn’t determined by social dynamics or women’s autonomy. But let’s break it down with nuance and some neuroscience / sociological perspective: 1. Sexual Orientation Is Biological & Complex 2. Visibility vs. Prevalence 3. Women’s Independence Shifts Relationship Dynamics 4. Neuroscience Perspective Bottom line: Women’s… Read More Common misconception
Gray divorce doesn’t happen overnight. It’s the result of decades of subtle nervous system stress, combined with newfound autonomy and awareness. Neuroscience helps explain why midlife often becomes the tipping point. 1. Chronic Limbic Stress Reaches Capacity 2. Prefrontal Cortex Gains Power 3. Emotional Memory Integration 4. Behavior-Based Reality Check 5. Autonomy Meets Neuroplasticity ✅ The… Read More The Tipping Point for Gray Divorce: A Neuroscience Perspective
Divorce rates are decreasing for younger couples. Overall, fewer people are divorcing. Yet there is one group bucking the trend: people over 50, married 20–30+ years — often called “gray divorce.” And here’s the pattern: Women are filing. After decades of marriage, after raising children and building a family, women are choosing to leave. Why Now? Neuroscience Explains… Read More Gray Divorce: Why Women Are Walking Away After Decades
Reposting for anyone who needs this right now How to Know When You’ve Reached Your Limit Reaching your limit rarely looks dramatic.It doesn’t always arrive as a breakdown, a fight, or a final incident. More often, it shows up quietly — in the body. Signs from a Neuroscience Perspective You may have reached your limit… Read More The Most Searched Article on This Site
I am not required to send letters.I am not required to explain myself.And I am not responsible for managing other people’s denial. The adult children of my former partner have known me for over 30 years. They have not only known me — they have witnessed abuse long before I ever entered the picture, directed at their own… Read More I Do Not Need to Explain My Exit from Abuse
And once you stop overriding yourself, the truth no longer needs a spokesperson. It simply appears. The Nervous System Was Never Broken — It Was Overridden Abuse does not succeed because the survivor is weak, naïve, or damaged. It succeeds because the nervous system is systematically overridden. From a neuroscience perspective, this is not a failure… Read More The Nervous System Was Never Broken — It Was Overridden
One of the most disorienting parts of leaving abuse is realising how long you were asked to doubt what others can see in seconds. When people encounter him for the first time — even indirectly, even through a photograph — they notice things instantly: They don’t know the history. They don’t know the stories. They… Read More When Other People See It Immediately
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 