The Four Horsemen of Relationship Breakdown (Gottman Method)
John Gottman identified four communication patterns that predict relationship failure with over 90% accuracy.They are called The Four Horsemen because once they dominate a relationship, emotional safety collapses. These four patterns are: 1️⃣ Criticism – Attacking the person, not the behaviour What it sounds like: Psychological impact: Criticism attacks identity, not actions.It tells the nervous system: “You are the problem.” Neuropsychology: Criticism activates… Read More The Four Horsemen of Relationship Breakdown (Gottman Method)









