This is the getting-to-know-you stage.

• You spend time together, but it’s not defined
• No clear expectations or commitments
• Either person may still see others
• Plans can be casual or last-minute
• You’re exploring compatibility

👉 Think: “We’re seeing how this goes.”

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🔹 A relationship

This is a defined, mutual agreement.

• You’ve both agreed you’re together
• There’s consistency and reliability
• Expectations are clearer (time, communication, effort)
• Usually exclusive
• You’re building something, not just exploring

👉 Think: “We’ve chosen each other.”

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🔑 The core difference

• Dating = possibility
• Relationship = decision

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🔴 The simplest test

If you have to ask:

“What are we?”

You’re probably still dating, not in a relationship.

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