Think of this as your yes / no system after just a few interactions.

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✅ GREEN FLAGS (KEEP EXPLORING)

Only continue if you consistently see:

• He makes plans and follows through (not vague “we should”)
• You see effort within 7–10 days (not weeks of texting)
• He initiates contact as much as you do (balanced energy)
• He’s clear about what he wants (not “let’s see” forever)
• You feel calm, not anxious after contact
• He respects your time and doesn’t disappear

👉 If these are present: keep going slowly.

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🚩 RED FLAGS (STOP INVESTING)

Pull back immediately if you see:

• Long gaps (days or weeks) with no proper explanation
• Only late-night texting or vague contact
• No concrete plan to meet you
• Hot-and-cold behaviour (intense then disappears)
• You feel confused, unsure, or “waiting”
• He says he’s interested but shows little action

👉 One or two of these is a warning.
👉 Several = he is not available emotionally.

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⏱️ THE 2–2–2 RULE (VERY IMPORTANT)

Use this early in dating:

• 2 days of chatting → should lead to a plan forming
• 2 attempts from you max (no more chasing)
• 2 weeks max before meeting in person

If it hasn’t moved forward by then → move on

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🧠 THE MOST IMPORTANT TEST

Ask yourself after every interaction:

“Am I being chosen… or am I waiting to be chosen?”

If you are waiting → he’s not your man.

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💡 YOUR NEW STANDARD (THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING)

• You do not audition for attention
• You do not chase clarity
• You do not accept confusion as “normal dating”

You only invest where there is mutual effort + consistency

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