Is He Genuine? Red Flags vs Green Flags (Quick Dating Checklist)

Sometimes you don’t need a long explanation—you just need clarity. If you’re unsure about someone, use this simple guide to check whether they’re authentic… or wasting your time.


✅ GREEN FLAGS (He’s Likely Genuine)

  • His words and actions match
  • He is consistent (not just when it suits him)
  • He makes time for you without excuses
  • He is clear about his intentions
  • He can have honest, adult conversations
  • He follows through on plans
  • You feel calm, secure, and respected
  • He is open, not secretive or vague
  • He takes accountability when he’s wrong
  • You don’t feel like you have to “figure him out”

🚩 RED FLAGS (Something Isn’t Right)

  • He says all the right things… but doesn’t follow through
  • He is hot and cold (intense, then distant)
  • You feel confused more than secure
  • He avoids clear answers or serious conversations
  • His stories or details don’t quite add up
  • He makes promises but there’s always an excuse
  • You’re doing most of the effort and chasing
  • He disappears when things get real or emotional
  • You feel like you’re being kept as an option
  • Your intuition keeps saying: “Something feels off”

⚖️ The Reality Check

If you’re constantly questioning someone’s intentions…
that is your answer.

Authentic people don’t create confusion—they create clarity and consistency.


Don’t listen to potential. Watch patterns.

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