| Feature | Honest | Dishonest |
|---|---|---|
| Motivation | Truth, integrity, transparency | Self-interest, manipulation, image management |
| Behavior | Actions match words | Actions often contradict words or shift depending on audience |
| Trust Signal | Nervous system feels safe; calm, coherent | Nervous system feels uncertain; tension, doubt, or alert |
| Brain Chemistry | Activates oxytocin → bonding, calm | Manipulates dopamine → excitement; spikes cortisol → stress, confusion |
| Social Effect | Builds consistent, healthy connections | Creates uncertainty, skepticism, and dependency on appearances |
| Long-Term Impact | Sustains trust, clarity, and mutual respect | Erodes trust, generates anxiety, and confuses perception over time |
Key Insight:
Honest people create safety and predictability in relationships. Dishonest people may feel thrilling or charming initially, but their inconsistencies accumulate — and your nervous system knows.
