A Red-Flag Comparison
| Category | Genuine Partner ❤️ | Fortune Hunter 💰 |
|---|---|---|
| Motives | Seeks love, companionship, and shared growth | Seeks money, status, lifestyle upgrade |
| Finances | Open about own situation, contributes what he can (even if modest) | Avoids talking about money, subtly expects you to pay |
| Attention | Values you as a whole person | Over-focuses on your wealth, status, or lifestyle perks |
| Consistency | Affection and effort remain steady even when money isn’t involved | Effort drops when there’s no financial benefit |
| Gifts & Giving | Gives in his own way (time, effort, thoughtfulness) | Rarely gives, or gives symbolic gifts to mask imbalance |
| Future Plans | Talks about building something together | Talks vaguely about the future, usually centered on your resources |
| Conflict | Works through disagreements respectfully | Uses guilt, flattery, or manipulation to avoid responsibility |
| Independence | Strives to grow and stand on his own too | Cycles through dependency, moving from one provider to another |
🧠 Quick Psychology Filter
- Dopamine-driven man → Chases thrills, gifts, and status (short-term).
- Oxytocin-driven man → Builds deep trust and bonding (long-term).
👉 If you ever feel like someone’s love shrinks without financial perks, that’s the clearest red flag that you’re dealing with a fortune hunter.
