Let’s talk about the kind of man who calls himself honourable.
The kind who talks about integrity and respect.
The kind who accepts a freind request from woman on Facebook after announcing he has a new woman while leaving behind damage, debt, and destruction.

In April, he said he had a new girlfriend.
Around the same time, someone quietly appeared on his social media.
By October, he was gone—after yet another incident of domestic violence.

But he didn’t just leave a broken home.
He left behind a trail of unpaid bills and broken promises:

• €1,500 DVK health insurance for October, November, and December—used by him, unpaid by him.
• €400 worth of expenses from March to September 2024 for the pool maintenance he benefited from.
• Electricity, internet, and water bills left unpaid.
• Not a single apology. Not a single attempt to make things right.

And yet he walks around calling himself an honest man.
A man of values.
Pretending he’s the one who was wronged.
Creating a new image while hoping no one looks at what he left behind.

But here’s the truth:
Integrity isn’t something you perform on social media.
It’s how you show up when no one’s watching.
It’s how you treat the people who supported you, trusted you, and stood by you.

And no matter how carefully someone curates their image online—
Their actions speak louder.

For those who’ve been left to pick up the pieces:
You are not alone. You are not the fool. You are the survivor of someone else’s lies, manipulation, and cowardice.

Call it out. Speak your truth.
Because silence only protects the abuser, not the truth.