Finding someone who not only tolerates but truly embraces and enjoys your energy is a gift. The way they respond to your presence, your words, and your emotions can reveal everything about how they feel. It’s not just about what they say—it’s about the subtle signs they show.

Watch Their Face

Facial expressions rarely lie.

• Does their face light up when you speak, showing genuine interest and enthusiasm?
• Are they making eye contact, or are they distracted, with their thoughts clearly elsewhere?

Someone who values you will be present in the moment, not preoccupied.

Pay Attention to the Effort

• Are the conversations balanced? Do they ask questions and actively listen, or is it one-sided?
• Are the calls reciprocal? Do they reach out to you just as often, or are you the one keeping the connection alive?
• When they say very little, is it because they’re truly listening—or because they’re disengaged?

Learn Through Observation

Actions always speak louder than words.

• If they’re distracted or uninterested when you’re communicating, what does that tell you about their priorities?
• A person who cares will make you feel seen, heard, and valued—not ignored or unimportant.

Trust What You See

• Someone who enjoys your energy will reflect it back to you through their enthusiasm, attention, and effort.
• If their behavior feels off—if their engagement doesn’t match their words—it’s worth reflecting on whether they’re truly aligned with your needs.

Relationships thrive on mutual connection and effort. Watch, learn, and trust what their actions are telling you.