By Linda C J Turner Therapy
For many survivors, walking away is just the beginning. The abuse doesn’t always stop when the relationship ends. In fact, sometimes it escalates — quietly, strategically, and from a distance.
🧠 This is not “moving on.”
This is post-separation abuse — and it’s very real.
📂 Building the Case: A Survivor’s Relentless Truth
Every day brings new revelations. New pieces of the puzzle. New evidence of a campaign not just to harm, but to silence, discredit, and exhaust. But I’ve stayed the course. I’ve kept the receipts. And now, I’m ready.
Here’s what I’ve uncovered so far:
🔸 Harassment from a distance — Not face-to-face, but just close enough to create fear. Messages, stalking, third parties, damaged property. The abuser no longer needs proximity to create chaos.
🔸 Perjury in court — Lies told under oath. Not minor inconsistencies, but full-scale falsehoods designed to discredit my testimony and protect their own image.
🔸 Mobile phone evidence (pending) — Still under investigation, but potentially holding key data — messages deleted, locations traced, and communications that contradict sworn statements.
🔸 Hidden assets — The financial dishonesty is deliberate. Money moved, accounts undisclosed, and attempts to hide wealth to avoid accountability.
🔸 Altered documents — Yes, you read that right. Evidence has been tampered with, edited, or strategically “lost” before court appearances. This is no accident — it’s obstruction.
🧠 The Psychology of Continued Abuse
From a psychological standpoint, these actions reflect a deep need to retain control at all costs. When abusers can no longer manipulate your emotions directly, they turn to external systems — the courts, finances, the community — to carry out their coercion.
It’s not about truth.
It’s about winning the narrative.
And when the narrative slips from their grasp, they panic. That panic turns into rage. That rage becomes manipulation — of facts, of timelines, of legal proceedings. Their end goal? To make you look unstable, unreliable, and vindictive.
But what they never count on is your endurance.
Your clarity.
Your calm, collected ability to document every single thread of abuse they think they’ve hidden.
⚖️ Justice Is Slow, But It Is Coming
I’ve been called dramatic. Bitter. Obsessed.
But I’m none of those things.
I’m committed to the truth — and the truth is stacking up.
Every time they lie under oath…
Every time they attempt to erase a fact…
Every time they try to intimidate from behind the curtain…
It becomes another nail in the coffin they are building for themselves.
This isn’t revenge.
It’s evidence.
And eventually, even the most golden masks will crack.
💬 A Final Word to Fellow Survivors:
If you’re gathering evidence — keep going.
If they’re still harassing you through others — write it down.
If the legal system feels like a maze — don’t stop walking.
Because truth, backed with documentation, is power.
And power, in the hands of a survivor, is unstoppable.
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