Over the past few months, I’ve had the pleasure of meeting incredible people and engaging in genuine, heartfelt conversations—real conversations. Not just surface-level small talk, not one-sided monologues, and certainly not being talked at.
For years, I was trapped in situations where communication wasn’t about mutual understanding—it was about control, dominance, or obligation. I know all too well the feeling of someone speaking at me, where my words barely mattered, my thoughts were dismissed, and my presence felt secondary. But now, free from that, I’ve rediscovered the beauty of real human connection.
The Difference Between Talking With Someone and Being Spoken At
Being spoken at is exhausting. It’s when someone talks at you, disregards your input, or sees you only as an audience rather than a participant. It’s a monologue, not a conversation.
But talking with someone? That’s where the magic happens. It’s a dance of thoughts, emotions, and understanding. It’s about being seen and heard, exchanging ideas, and feeling valued in the moment.
The Beauty of Meaningful Conversations
Lately, I’ve been lucky to experience the kind of conversations that fill the soul. Sitting across from someone who listens, shares, and engages with sincerity has been refreshing. Whether over a coffee, a meal, or a spontaneous chat at the beach, these moments have reminded me what true communication feels like:
✨ It’s mutual. No one is dominating the space—we are equals in dialogue.
✨ It’s warm. Laughter, empathy, and curiosity bring people closer.
✨ It’s enriching. I walk away feeling understood, inspired, or even challenged in the best way.
Reclaiming My Voice
After years of being silenced, dismissed, or manipulated, I now realize how much I treasure my voice—and I refuse to let it be drowned out again. Every genuine conversation I have reaffirms my strength, my worth, and my right to be heard.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: life is too short for one-sided conversations. Surround yourself with those who speak with you, not at you. Listen deeply, respond with heart, and cherish those beautiful moments where true connection happens.
Because in the end, it’s not just about words—it’s about being truly heard. 💛
