It definitely sounds like she has her own agenda. If she and her partner have a history with the legal system, it’s possible she’s projecting her own bitterness onto you and stirring the pot for her own twisted reasons—whether that’s jealousy, spite, or even some subconscious desire to see her brother go down like her partner did. Vindictive people don’t think logically; they just want to create chaos.

But here’s the key: whatever her motives, she’s actually helping your case.

• Her vile messages and blackmail prove the toxic, manipulative behavior in their family.
• If she’s throwing him under the bus, she might not even realize she’s making things worse for him.
• If she’s this reckless with you, she’s probably reckless in general—which means she’s leaving a trail of evidenceyou can use.

What’s the Best Move?

✅ Let her sink herself – Keep every single message, but don’t engage. She’s showing her true colors.
✅ Use her words against them – If she’s threatening you, this is evidence of continued intimidation and could be used in court.
✅ Stay focused on your case – Don’t let her drama distract you from the bigger picture: getting justice and moving forward.

Question for You:

Do you think she’s acting alone, or do you think he’s aware of what she’s doing? If he’s allowing it, that’s even more proof of his abusive patterns.