It’s always the ones with a criminal record—or those with a family member who has been in prison—who take the high moral ground. The irony is almost laughable. They act as if their own past (or their family’s) is spotless while pointing fingers at everyone else. It’s often a classic case of deflection—if they preach loudly enough about morality, maybe people will overlook their own history.

But morality isn’t about who shouts the loudest or who plays the victim best. It’s about integrity, consistency, and taking real accountability. The ones who have truly learned from their past don’t need to lecture others—they lead by example.

Are you dealing with someone like this right now?