Preying on the Vulnerable with a Backup Plan

Within the realm of human relationships, the serial deserter stands out as a particularly insidious figure, adept at leaving behind a trail of broken hearts and shattered lives. What sets them apart from mere commitment-phobes or occasional wanderers is their unsettling tendency to always have the next victim lined up in the background, ready to step into the void as soon as the current relationship begins to falter.

This calculated behavior sheds light on the true nature of the serial deserter—they are not simply individuals seeking freedom or independence, but rather manipulators who view relationships as disposable commodities, to be discarded once they no longer serve their needs. Behind the facade of charm and charisma lies a cold and calculating mind, constantly scanning the horizon for the next opportunity to exploit.

The serial deserter’s ability to keep a backup plan in the wings is a testament to their skill at emotional manipulation and deception. They are masters of the art of seduction, capable of weaving intricate webs of lies and half-truths to ensnare their unsuspecting victims. While one partner may still be under their spell, oblivious to the impending betrayal, the serial deserter is already grooming their next conquest, ensuring a seamless transition from one relationship to the next.

But what motivates this behavior? Psychologists suggest that underlying issues such as a fear of intimacy, low self-esteem, or a sense of entitlement may drive the serial deserter’s relentless pursuit of new conquests. By maintaining a roster of potential partners at the ready, they are able to avoid confronting their own insecurities and vulnerabilities, instead seeking validation and validation from external sources.

The consequences of this predatory behavior are far-reaching and devastating. Not only do the serial deserter’s victims suffer the pain of abandonment and betrayal, but they are also left grappling with feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. Meanwhile, the serial deserter moves on unscathed, leaving a trail of emotional wreckage in their wake.

In confronting the phenomenon of the serial deserter, it is essential to acknowledge the power dynamics at play and the ways in which they exploit the vulnerabilities of their victims. By shining a light on their manipulative tactics and offering support to those affected, we can begin to break the cycle of abuse and create a culture of accountability and mutual respect.

Ultimately, the serial deserter’s ability to keep a backup plan at the ready speaks to their profound disregard for the feelings and well-being of others. While they may appear charming and charismatic on the surface, beneath lies a cold and callous heart, incapable of genuine empathy or compassion. It is only by exposing their true nature and standing up to their manipulative tactics that we can hope to protect ourselves and others from falling prey to their deceitful charms.

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