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The Hidden Dangers of Dating Apps: Con Men, Pretenders, and Emotional Fraud

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Dating apps aren’t inherently bad — but they are highly efficient environments for deception. They allow people to present a carefully curated version of themselves with very little accountability, history, or social consequence. And that creates opportunity — not just for romance, but for manipulation. Who Thrives on Dating Apps (and Why) Dating apps are especially attractive… Read More The Hidden Dangers of Dating Apps: Con Men, Pretenders, and Emotional Fraud

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Aggressive Communication

What Those Statements Actually Are Examples: These are NOT: These ARE: Why This Is Not Just “Unfiltered Honesty” 1. They Target Identity, Not Behavior Unfiltered honesty can still focus on actions: “This task wasn’t completed.” Your examples focus on who the person is: 📍 The brain experiences this as a social threat, activating the same neural pathways as physical danger. 2.… Read More Aggressive Communication

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Reclaiming the Paperwork — and the Truth

As I prepare for divorce, I have had to replace every single legal document I need.Passports, certificates, records — all of the originals were taken long ago. They were kept in a briefcase I was never allowed to open or touch.Money and documents stored away before we were even married. On the surface, this looks like administration.Psychologically, it… Read More Reclaiming the Paperwork — and the Truth

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Violence and Abuse Often Escalate at Christmas — Stay Vigilant

People don’t like to talk about it, but it’s the truth:violence and abuse often escalate during the holiday season. Stress, alcohol, financial pressure, entitlement, loss of routine, family gatherings — all of these can inflame an abuser’s behaviour. And many abusers deliberately “up their game” at Christmas to cause maximum emotional impact. After 32 Christmases of abuse, I… Read More Violence and Abuse Often Escalate at Christmas — Stay Vigilant

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Pseudologia Fantastica

People who perform success, intelligence, wealth, or status that they do not have — while secretly being obsessed with money, social climbing, and using others. Psychology and neuroscience have a LOT to say about this. Below is a clear, structured guide with signs, mechanisms, and the brain-based reasons behind the behaviour. 🔥 1. What This Behaviour Is Called in Psychology These patterns fall… Read More Pseudologia Fantastica

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The Sunk Cost Trap

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The sunk cost trap is a psychological pattern where you keep investing time, money, or emotion into something because you’ve already invested, even when all signs show it’s not good for you anymore. It’s one of the biggest reasons people stay in bad relationships, toxic friendships, or financially exploitative situations. 🔍 Simple Definition “I’ve already put so much in… I can’t… Read More The Sunk Cost Trap

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