When you’re healing from trauma — whether it’s the end of an abusive relationship, a painful divorce, or the loss of a partner — you’re at your most open and vulnerable.Your heart wants connection, your nervous system craves safety, and your mind is searching for stability.And that’s exactly when the wrong people often appear —… Read More Avoiding Fake Love and False Friendships During Trauma Recovery
When a victim is led to believe that their abuser is acting in their best interest and looking out for them, it complicates the process of recognizing and breaking free from the abuse. This form of manipulation is particularly insidious because it distorts the victim’s perception of reality and makes it difficult for them to see the abuse for what it is. Here, we will explore how this dynamic works, its psychological impact, and strategies to help the victim break free.… Read More Trauma Bonding
Abusive relationships, especially those involving psychological manipulation, often create a complex attachment bond between the victim and the abuser. This bond, sometimes known as a trauma bond, can make it extremely difficult for the victim to break free. The abuser’s relentless contact can reinforce this attachment, making the victim feel trapped and unable to escape.… Read More Understanding the Dynamics of Attachment and Abuse
The intricate interplay between traumatic bonding, learned helplessness, and coercive control creates a web that ensnares individuals in a cycle of victimization. Whether within the confines of a cult, in cases of intimate partner violence (IPV), or among trafficked sex workers, understanding the profound impact of these psychological mechanisms is essential. This article explores the connection between learned helplessness and coercive control, shedding light on the dynamics that echo the complexities of addiction.… Read More Unraveling the Complex Web of Traumatic Bonding
Trauma bonding is a complex psychological phenomenon where a strong emotional connection forms between a person and their abuser or the source of their trauma. This bond develops in situations where a person perceives a connection between love and abuse, making it challenging to detach from the harmful relationship or situation. It often occurs in… Read More What is Trauma Bonding
