Yes — some do feel safer, but “safe” can mean different things depending on the man: 🔹 1. Emotionally “Safe” — Avoiding Vulnerability Some men feel emotionally “safer” around a woman who is more masculine in energy or appearance because: For emotionally avoidant men, being around a traditionally feminine woman — especially one who is soft, emotionally expressive,… Read More 💬 Do Some Men Feel “Safer” Around Masculine Women?
There are many reasons, and none of them make a woman “less” of a woman. It all depends on her identity, experiences, cultural background, and how she feels most authentic in the world. 1. Gender Expression vs. Gender Identity 2. Cultural and Personal Comfort 3. A Statement Against Gender Norms 4. Sexual Orientation and Identity 👓 What About “Thick Glasses, Big Necks,… Read More 🌈 Why Do Some Women Dress and Act in a Masculine Way?
The truth is: many men are naturally drawn to feminine energy — just as many women are drawn to masculine energy. It’s a natural polarity that creates attraction, like a magnetic pull. But here’s where it gets interesting: femininity isn’t just about appearance. It’s an energy, a presence, a way of being. That said, let’s look at some… Read More 💃 Do Men Prefer Feminine Women?
Maslow placed self-actualisation at the top of his famous hierarchy of needs. It represented a person’s journey to become the fullest version of themselves. For Maslow, this included: Self-actualised people, in his research, tended to be humble, truth-seeking, deeply connected to their values, and capable of experiencing “peak experiences”—those transcendent moments of pure joy, connection, or clarity.… Read More 🌱 What Maslow Meant by Self-Actualisation
They say the eyes are the windows to the soul — and the more we learn about human psychology, emotional intelligence, and trauma recovery, the more we realize how profoundly true that is. Have you ever met someone and felt as though their eyes spoke before their words did? As if one glance could tell… Read More The Eyes: Windows to the Soul and Storytellers of the Unspoken
By Linda C J TurnerTrauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment Many people assume that coming out is something reserved for teenagers or young adults — something done early in life, loudly and boldly. But the truth is often far more complex. Many individuals find themselves navigating their sexuality… Read More Living a Secret Life: Coming to Terms with Your Sexuality While Still Married
There’s something deeply comforting about ending your day with a gentle, loving conversation—No drama. No tension. Just kindness, warmth, and the simple joy of feeling safe. Whether it’s in person, over the phone, or even through a voice note or message—those soft, caring words before bed become a balm for the soul. It’s Not Just Nice—It’s… Read More 🌙 The Healing Power of a Kind Voice Before Sleep
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate “Karma and God work in mysterious ways. Sometimes it takes months… sometimes years. But what happens if you don’t have years? God and Karma will find a way.” These words carry the quiet force of truth—the kind we often only come to understand in hindsight. Whether you… Read More Karma: A Psychological Mirror of Our Inner and Outer Worlds
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate Seven months ago, I stood at the edge of my darkest, most desperate place—emotionally bruised, suffocated by fear and pain, and desperate for any escape. I finally found the courage to step away, reach out for help, and reclaim my life. Today, with the unwavering support of… Read More Freedom at Last: My Seven-Month Journey from Despair to Deep-Rooted Joy
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate There comes a moment in the healing journey that is so sacred, so profound, so deeply felt, that it transcends anything money could ever offer. It’s not a house.It’s not a car.It’s not a luxury holiday.It’s not even the comfort of financial security. It’s something far rarer.Something money… Read More 🌟 No Money Can Buy This Feeling: The Soul of Post-Traumatic Growth 🌿
