Tag: Psychology

Stalking or watching young children — what is it?

It depends on intent, behaviour, and pattern, but persistent watching of children is a major red flag and can fall under criminal behaviour, even before physical contact. When “watching” becomes a concern It is not normal for an adult to: When this happens, it is often classified as predatory surveillance. Possible legal classifications (vary by country) Depending on behaviour and evidence, authorities may classify… Read More Stalking or watching young children — what is it?

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Cycle of predatory behaviour

Key Warning Signs Behavioral Pattern Summary Potential Red Flags for Background Checks Protective Measures Key Takeaway Predatory partners often appear charming and professional while hiding a pattern of financial exploitation and relational control.Early verification, observation, and maintaining autonomy are critical to protecting both financial and emotional well-being.

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Are People Born Cruel — or Is Cruelty Learned?

People are not born cruel.Cruelty is learned, reinforced, and practiced over time. From a neuroscience perspective: Cruelty becomes conditioned behavior, not an innate trait. How Cruelty Becomes Reinforced in the Brain When someone harms another person and experiences: …the brain releases dopamine. Over time: This is why cruelty can escalate if unchecked. Can Long-Term Cruelty Be Fixed? It depends — and… Read More Are People Born Cruel — or Is Cruelty Learned?

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🧠 WHY ABUSERS RUSH MARRIAGE AND RELOCATION

This pattern is so consistent that clinicians, domestic-abuse assessors, and family courts treat it as a major red flagrather than a coincidence. I’ll explain it cleanly and calmly, from both a psychological and neuroscience perspective. The short answer Because speed collapses your ability to evaluate, and distance collapses your ability to escape. Together, they lock control into place. 1. RUSHED MARRIAGE = LEGAL +… Read More 🧠 WHY ABUSERS RUSH MARRIAGE AND RELOCATION

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WHY CLARITY ALWAYS ARRIVES AFTER ESCAPE

Neuroscience + Psychology Map 1. SURVIVAL MODE BLOCKS INSIGHT While inside the relationship What your brain was doing Neuroscience 🧠 Key rule:The brain cannot analyze the fire while it is inside the burning house. Insight requires safety. 2. CONTINUOUS THREAT COLLAPSES TIME Why years pass in a blur What happens under long-term stress Neuroscience This is trauma time — not normal time. 3. ISOLATION… Read More WHY CLARITY ALWAYS ARRIVES AFTER ESCAPE

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I can see clearly now – working with my psychologist

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

What you’ve just described is not a “relationship that went wrong.”It is a long-term, patterned exploitation and coercive-control dynamic.And the fact that you can now see it sequentially means your brain is coming out of survival mode. I’ll map this cleanly, psychologically, and neurologically, — the way trauma specialists explain it in assessments. 🧠 LONG-TERM COERCIVE CONTROL… Read More I can see clearly now – working with my psychologist

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🧠 WHAT “I’M ALWAYS RIGHT” DOES TO THE BRAIN

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

1️⃣ The brain stops learning Neuroscience Result Certainty feels safe — but it is neurologically anti-growth. 2️⃣ The amygdala takes over Being wrong activates threat circuits. If your identity depends on being right: Brain pattern You’re no longer processing information — you’re protecting the self-image. 3️⃣ Dopamine rewards self-confirmation, not truth Each time you: …the brain… Read More 🧠 WHAT “I’M ALWAYS RIGHT” DOES TO THE BRAIN

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Transactional, one-sided, and emotionally empty.

There are identifiable neuroscience and psychology mechanisms behind why so many interactions now feel transactional, one-sided, and emotionally empty. I’ll break this down clearly and without platitudes. 1. The brain has shifted from social bonding to resource extraction Humans evolved for reciprocal bonds. The nervous system expects: But modern stress rewires the brain toward survival efficiency instead of connection. Chronic stress does this… Read More Transactional, one-sided, and emotionally empty.

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Why Separation Triggers Escalation

Below is a clear, step-by-step escalation model used in trauma psychology and coercive-control research to explain how financial parasitism intensifies once separation begins.This is predictable, patterned, and not accidental. Why Separation Triggers Escalation Financial parasitism is not just about money.It is about regulation, control, and entitlement. When separation starts: The behaviour escalates to re-establish dominance or punish autonomy. The Escalation Pathway… Read More Why Separation Triggers Escalation

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Real Love vs Financial Parasite

Here is a clear, evidence-based breakdown of real love vs. a financial parasite, grounded in neuroscience, psychology, and behavioural science, with early warning signs your nervous system often detects before your mind does. This is not about wealth.It’s about intent, reciprocity, and conscience. Real Love vs Financial Parasite (Neuroscience & Psychology) CORE DIFFERENCE (at brain level) Real Love “Your wellbeing matters as… Read More Real Love vs Financial Parasite

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