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A narcissist refers to an individual who exhibits narcissistic traits or has been diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a mental health condition characterized by a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. While many people may display some narcissistic traits, individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder exhibit these traits to an extent that significantly interferes with their relationships and functioning.

Preparing for Divorce When the Truth Has Been Twisted: A Psychological Guide for Survivors of Coercive Control and Emotional Abuse

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate When you’re preparing for divorce after emotional or psychological abuse — especially when coercion, manipulation, and family dynamics are involved — it becomes about so much more than the legal paperwork. It’s about reclaiming your truth, protecting your peace, and refusing to be erased by false narratives.… Read More Preparing for Divorce When the Truth Has Been Twisted: A Psychological Guide for Survivors of Coercive Control and Emotional Abuse

April 21, 2025April 21, 2025 Linda C J TurnerLeave a comment

🐣 When Holidays Hurt: The Neuroscience of Dark Triad Personalities and the Pain They Inflict on Special Occasions

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate For most of us, holidays and birthdays are meant to be joyful—a time of connection, family, food, laughter, and love. But for those living with an emotionally or psychologically abusive partner—especially one displaying Dark Triadtraits—these “special days” can become emotional minefields. Instead of joy, they bring anxiety. Instead… Read More 🐣 When Holidays Hurt: The Neuroscience of Dark Triad Personalities and the Pain They Inflict on Special Occasions

April 18, 2025April 18, 2025 Linda C J TurnerLeave a comment

The Sadism of Control: A Closer Look at the Cruelty of Abusers

The Sadism of Control: A Closer Look at the Cruelty of Abusers At the heart of many abusive dynamics lies a disturbing truth—some abusers derive real satisfaction from the suffering they cause. This isn’t just about control. This is about cruelty with intent. About watching someone else’s light dim and feeling powerful because of it. These… Read More The Sadism of Control: A Closer Look at the Cruelty of Abusers

April 11, 2025 Linda C J TurnerLeave a comment

Denial, Denial, Denial: How Abusers and Their Families Silence the Truth

Denial, Denial, Denial: How Abusers and Their Families Silence the Truth For decades, I have witnessed a pattern of behavior that repeats itself like a broken record—denial, silence, and sweeping everything under the carpet. It has taken years for me to fully recognize the tactics used to cover up abuse, but now, looking back, everything… Read More Denial, Denial, Denial: How Abusers and Their Families Silence the Truth

April 4, 2025April 4, 2025 Linda C J TurnerLeave a comment

Understanding Aggressive Communication: Characteristics, Impact, and Consequences

Understanding Aggressive Communication: Characteristics, Impact, and Consequences Aggressive communication is a style of interaction where a person asserts their rights, thoughts, and feelings in a way that is inappropriate and violates the rights of others. It is often characterized by dominance, intimidation, and hostility, leaving the recipient feeling belittled, attacked, or devalued. While aggressive communication… Read More Understanding Aggressive Communication: Characteristics, Impact, and Consequences

April 2, 2025 Linda C J TurnerLeave a comment

New Girlfriend

When someone who has been married for 32 years suddenly claims to have a girlfriend (or someone else in their life), especially when they haven’t actually been involved with that person, it can be a sign of several things. Understanding their motives can give you a clearer picture of why they might take such a… Read More New Girlfriend

March 25, 2025 Linda C J TurnerLeave a comment

Last Minute Tactics

If an abuser suddenly claims that they still “love” you, have had therapy, and want to start a new relationship with you just before your court date, it’s likely a last-minute manipulation tactic. This is designed to create confusion and emotional pressure, potentially swaying your decisions or affecting your mindset going into the proceedings. It’s… Read More Last Minute Tactics

March 25, 2025 Linda C J TurnerLeave a comment

Control the narrative.

Abusers often escalate their manipulative tactics before a court case, trying to sway public opinion, gain sympathy, and isolate the victim. This is a classic pattern—right before legal consequences or exposure, they scramble to control the narrative. Here’s what’s happening and how to handle it. Why Abusers Ramp It Up Before Court 1. Damage Control: They… Read More Control the narrative.

March 22, 2025 Linda C J TurnerLeave a comment

Trying to control the situation

Divorce is already a challenging process, but when a meddling relative starts sending harassing emails, it adds unnecessary stress and emotional turmoil. If you’re facing this situation, it’s crucial to stay focused, protect yourself legally, and not let their interference derail your progress. Here’s how you can effectively handle it: 1. Recognize the Manipulation Tactics Meddling… Read More Trying to control the situation

March 17, 2025 Linda C J TurnerLeave a comment

Don’t Be Deceived by the “Nice Act” During Divorce

If you never received true kindness or remorse during the relationship, don’t expect it now. Any sudden display of affection, regret, or generosity is not genuine—it’s strategic. 🚨 They haven’t had a change of heart.🚨 They are managing the fallout of their actions.🚨 They are protecting their image, not repairing the damage. Everything is STILL Transactional A narcissist does not suddenly develop… Read More Don’t Be Deceived by the “Nice Act” During Divorce

March 14, 2025March 14, 2025 Linda C J TurnerLeave a comment