Tag: #love

Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that encompasses a range of feelings, attitudes, and behaviors. It can be experienced in various forms, including romantic love, familial love, platonic love, and self-love. Here are some key aspects of love:

Grace, Courtesy and Cruelty: How the Way We Treat People Affects the Mind

In a world that can sometimes feel increasingly impatient, competitive and divided, grace and courtesy are not signs of weakness. They are forms of emotional maturity and social responsibility. A kind word, a little patience, listening without interrupting, showing consideration and treating another person with dignity can have a profound effect on how safe and valued… Read More Grace, Courtesy and Cruelty: How the Way We Treat People Affects the Mind

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When Your Success Changes Your Relationships: The Psychology and Neuroscience of Outgrowing Your Old Identity

Success can change the dynamics of relationships, particularly with those who knew you before. Many may struggle to reconcile the new, confident version of you with their past perceptions, leading to criticism or distance. This phenomenon highlights that true friendships thrive on mutual support and understanding of individual growth without insecurity or comparison.… Read More When Your Success Changes Your Relationships: The Psychology and Neuroscience of Outgrowing Your Old Identity

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When a Woman’s Success Becomes a Threat: Female Jealousy, Intimidation and the Psychology of Comparison

Women sometimes feel threatened by each other’s success, confidence, or independence, leading to jealousy that can affect friendships and professional relationships. While jealousy may play a role, many factors like social comparison, self-esteem, and expectations also contribute. Healthy relationships allow mutual support without diminishing individual achievements, recognizing that one woman’s success doesn’t detract from another’s value.… Read More When a Woman’s Success Becomes a Threat: Female Jealousy, Intimidation and the Psychology of Comparison

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Genuine Friendship vs Transactional Friendship: When You’re There for Someone, But They’re Not There for You

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content explores the complexities of friendships, differentiating between genuine and transactional relationships. It highlights signs of one-sided friendships, the emotional impact when support is not reciprocated, and the importance of mutual respect, honesty, and emotional availability. Ultimately, it emphasizes valuing individuals for who they are rather than what they provide.… Read More Genuine Friendship vs Transactional Friendship: When You’re There for Someone, But They’re Not There for You

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Reading Between the Lines: When People’s Words and Actions Don’t Match

Understanding mixed signals in relationships involves recognizing the discrepancies between what individuals say and how they act. Key issues include manipulation, emotional ambivalence, and recurring behavior patterns that reveal underlying intentions. Distinguishing between isolated incidents and repeated behaviors aids in assessing relationship dynamics and making informed decisions without needing to prove others’ motives.… Read More Reading Between the Lines: When People’s Words and Actions Don’t Match

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What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content discusses the impact of adult behavior on children’s understanding of kindness and relationships. It highlights the contradiction between teaching respect while adults engage in cruel behavior for amusement. The text emphasizes that children learn from adult actions, urging a reflection on how choices can influence their values and treatment of others.… Read More What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?

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Would You Believe the Evidence — or Protect the Person You Love?

The content discusses the complexities of recognizing and addressing potential grooming behaviors towards children by trusted individuals. It emphasizes the psychological challenges parents face when confronted with allegations against those they know and care for, urging them to remain vigilant for warning signs and prioritize their children’s safety above discomfort or reputations.… Read More Would You Believe the Evidence — or Protect the Person You Love?

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“A Turner Is Never Wrong” — Except, Apparently, When It Comes to Me

The content explores the psychological dynamics of double standards in relationships, highlighting how one partner may consistently be blamed or invalidated while the other is not. This unequal treatment can lead to feelings of inadequacy, defensiveness, and emotional exhaustion. The text emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and the ability to admit mistakes for healthy interactions.… Read More “A Turner Is Never Wrong” — Except, Apparently, When It Comes to Me

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