Tag: #love

Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that encompasses a range of feelings, attitudes, and behaviors. It can be experienced in various forms, including romantic love, familial love, platonic love, and self-love. Here are some key aspects of love:

The Hidden Dangers of Dating Apps: Con Men, Pretenders, and Emotional Fraud

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Dating apps aren’t inherently bad — but they are highly efficient environments for deception. They allow people to present a carefully curated version of themselves with very little accountability, history, or social consequence. And that creates opportunity — not just for romance, but for manipulation. Who Thrives on Dating Apps (and Why) Dating apps are especially attractive… Read More The Hidden Dangers of Dating Apps: Con Men, Pretenders, and Emotional Fraud

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In Simple Terms: What’s Actually Going On

This isn’t new behaviour.It’s the same pattern that’s been happening for decades — just playing out in a different way. When someone ignores divorce proceedings, doesn’t respond to solicitors, blocks the sale of a house, removes signs, and then later blames or sues you for delays — that isn’t confusion or bad communication. It’s control.… Read More In Simple Terms: What’s Actually Going On

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How the Sunk Cost Trap Operates in Predatory Relationships

Dopamine Finds a Familiar Path The reward circuits light up — not from novelty, but from recognition. The brain remembers every shared laugh, every rescue, every late-night talk. Now it attaches desire to the same neural pathways that once held comfort. Excitement without fear. That’s rare chemistry.

Predatory people intentionally front-load the relationship so you invest early, and they invest little.This creates psychological pressure that traps you later. Here’s how it usually works: ⭐ Phase 1 — “Hooking” You With Intensity They create fast closeness: Goal: You form an emotional attachment early.Your brain says: “We’ve started something real.” ⭐ Phase 2 — Getting You to Invest (Emotionally, Financially, or Practically)… Read More How the Sunk Cost Trap Operates in Predatory Relationships

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Predatory Opportunism

When behavior signals predatory opportunism, not genuine connection. It is not accidental, and it is not about you. 🧠 Pattern Breakdown 1. Early vulnerability used as an entry point “I’m sick… I don’t have insurance…” This is manufactured urgency.It invites rescue before trust exists. ✅ Healthy people solve early problems without testing your resources. 2. Asset-scanning questions “Do you own the house?”… Read More Predatory Opportunism

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Transactional relationships driven by money and security

When people live with someone primarily for financial gain or a luxury lifestyle, the relationship quietly shifts from connection to transaction. Affection becomes currency. Tolerance replaces boundaries. Harm is excused not because it isn’t felt, but because survival—or comfort—feels more urgent than integrity. From a neuroscience perspective, this dynamic is not accidental. The human brain… Read More Transactional relationships driven by money and security

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Self Erasure

At some point, many people notice a quiet shift in their relationships. Conversations stop being mutual. Listening fades. What replaces it is agenda—people focused less on connection and more on what they can extract from a situation. This is how many relationships become transactional. Some people are interested only in favors, free help, emotional labor,… Read More Self Erasure

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