An fMRI study of a neural mechanism for mate choice (Fisher et al., 2005) The Neuroendocrinology of Love (Seshadri et al., 2016) 2. Trust / Trustworthiness + Brain Mechanisms Neural representations of honesty predict future trust (Bellucci et al., 2019) The neuroscience of trust violation: Differential activation of… (2022) Putting it together:
1) What the research says about romance fraud / relationship-based financial exploitation Here are key findings and features from the literature (with citations). A. The process / lifecycle B. Key techniques / red-flags C. Factors that increase vulnerability D. Gaps in research 2) What neuroscience and brain-mechanisms relate to this kind of exploitation While there’s… Read More Tainted Love
Relief Relief is a reactive physiological‑emotional state. It occurs when a stressor or threat diminishes or ends. For example: you finish a difficult project, get through an argument, narrowly avoid a danger. The tension, vigilance or threat drops and you feel “whew”—that’s relief. In nervous‑system terms, relief often means that your sympathetic (“fight/flight/alert”) system was active or… Read More Relief vs. Calm — What’s the difference?
When people live with someone primarily for financial gain or a luxury lifestyle, the relationship quietly shifts from connection to transaction. Affection becomes currency. Tolerance replaces boundaries. Harm is excused not because it isn’t felt, but because survival—or comfort—feels more urgent than integrity. From a neuroscience perspective, this dynamic is not accidental. The human brain… Read More Transactional relationships driven by money and security
When you’ve experienced emotional neglect, betrayal, or manipulation, your body adapts before your mind does. Your attachment system—designed to seek safety and predictability—lowers its standards. What once counted as “basic decency” starts to feel like security. The nervous system quietly revises the rules. In this state, not being hurt can register as being loved. When someone is merely… Read More When Relief Feels Like Love
IntroductionSurvivors of long-term abuse often experience a profound psychological weight. Decades of emotional, physical, or relational trauma can shape not only beliefs and behaviors but also neural architecture. Emerging from such a context into a space of autonomy—symbolized here by “having no ring on your finger”—can trigger complex emotional, cognitive, and neurobiological responses. Psychological Perspective… Read More Freedom After Decades of Abuse: The Neuroscience of Choice and Self-Determination
Reciprocity is the backbone of trust, emotional safety, and attachment. It works because your brain and nervous system are wired to seek predictable, rewarding interactions. 1. The Neurochemistry of Reciprocity When someone consistently responds to your needs — emotionally, physically, or socially — your brain releases key neurochemicals: Neurochemical Role Effect on Relationships Oxytocin Bonding hormone Promotes… Read More Healthy Reciprocity: Building Safety and Reward in Relationships
1. The Stress Response and Uncertainty Result: You feel anxious, obsessed, and caught in a loop — waiting for approval or contact. 2. Mirror Neurons and Emotional Empathy 3. The Reward System and Intermittent Reinforcement 4. Prefrontal Cortex vs. Emotional Hijacking 5. Cognitive Patterns That Maintain the Loop These cognitive patterns strengthen neural circuits tied to attachment… Read More Why Chasing Non-Responsive Partners is Unhealthy: A Neuroscience Perspective
1. Key Brain Regions Region Role in Secure Attachment Activation Effects Amygdala Threat detection, fear response Downregulated → reduced anxiety, fear of abandonment Prefrontal Cortex Decision-making, emotional regulation Active → logical problem-solving, calm response to conflict Anterior Cingulate Cortex Social pain, empathy Regulated → enhances empathy, attunement Insula Interoception, emotional awareness Active → reads own… Read More Neurochemistry of Secure Couples
When a hidden truth or secret is revealed, the natural reaction is often shock, anger, or grief. But reframing the experience can transform it from trauma into empowerment, insight, and personal growth. 1. The Gift of Awareness 2. An Opportunity for Growth 3. A Chance to Reclaim Your Life 4. Additional Deep Reframes Truth as a… Read More Reframing the Revelation: Transforming Truth into Growth and Freedom
