To all the women who laughed when they visited my house — watching me painting, decorating, fixing things, putting up shelves, paying for this and that, all while still working and running a household — I remember every smile, every comment, every raised eyebrow. To those who thought it was so funny watching me do all the… Read More Who’s the Stupid One Now?By Linda C. J. Turner
In the early 1970s, domestic violence was not recognised by law or society as a crime. It was considered a “private matter.” Women like Jenny had nowhere to go. Police often refused to intervene, and families urged women to “go back home.” But in 1971, one woman — Erin Pizzey — decided that silence was no longer… Read More The Birth of Refuge: How One House Changed Everything
Smiles are not just facial expressions; they are deeply rooted in our brain’s emotional circuitry. According to research by Paul Ekman, there are two primary types of smiles: The key difference lies in the involvement of the eyes. A true smile involves the eyes, while a fake smile does not. This distinction is crucial because… Read More 🧠 The Neuroscience of Smiling: Voluntary vs. Involuntary Muscles
For thirty years, Margaret stood by her husband. Through the bruises hidden under long sleeves, through the bank accounts drained without explanation, through the words that sliced her spirit thinner with every passing year. She told herself that marriage was endurance, that loyalty meant staying when it was hard. People whispered. Friends drifted away. But… Read More The House of Secrets
You know how they say “love is blind”? Well in my case, love wasn’t just blind — it was half-cut, stumbling around without its glasses, and should have booked an urgent appointment at Specsavers. Because honestly… how did I end up with him? Shallow. Mean. Ugly inside and out. My friend nailed it in one sentence: “How… Read More Should Have Gone to Specsavers: My Ex in Review
It’s one of life’s great mysteries: how smart, capable, discerning women sometimes end up with men who are… well… the exact opposite of all that. Shallow? Check. Mean? Check. Ugly inside and out? Double check. A friend of mine summed it up bluntly one day: “How did you end up with someone like that?” And honestly, I’ve… Read More Should Have Gone to Specsavers: How Did I End Up With Him?
Returning to the themes of her classic The Drama of the Gifted Child, the famed psychoanalyst examines the consequences of cruelty to children and offers ways we can heal our early psychic wounds. . More than twenty years ago, a little-known Swiss psychoanalyst wrote a book that changed the way many people viewed themselves and… Read More The Truth Will Set You Free
1. Truth and Lies Start to Blur At first, the brain knows it’s lying: the prefrontal cortex (self-control, logic) has to inhibit the truth while fabricating something else. The amygdala sparks stress and guilt. But with repetition, two things happen: This is how chronic liars end up believing their own lies. The brain rewires itself so thoroughly that the line… Read More 🧠 The Brain on Long-Term Lying
In the early stages of dating, there’s one universal truth:you’re not just meeting for coffee or dinner — you’re setting the tone for how she will feel with you in her life. If the opening chapter of your story feels rushed, stingy, or indifferent, she’s already closing the book. 1. The Power of the Honeymoon Period The… Read More Taking Out a Lady — The Art of Making Her Feel Cherished
They say the eyes are the windows to the soul—and for good reason. Our eyes reveal far more than we realise: emotions, intentions, even subtle shifts in mood. For someone who has lived decades looking into eyes that were cold, empty, or cruel, learning to seek kindness in a person’s gaze isn’t just a preference—it’s… Read More Kind Eyes: Why We Seek the Soul in a Glance
