Lawyers, solicitors, and judges are highly trained to spot deception, projection, and manipulation. In court, abusers often think they can talk their way out of things just like they do in their personal lives—but legal professionals see right through them, especially when the evidence doesn’t match their twisted narrative. Why Abusers Struggle in Legal Settings Why This Must Be… Read More Why Abusers Struggle in Legal Settings
Abuse can strip you of everything—your relationships, your self-respect, and even your sense of identity. I have lost a son, family, friends, and almost my self-respect by staying too long with an abuser. If you are in a similar situation, please don’t hesitate. Read the signs, get help, and seek advice before it’s too late.… Read More Get Out While You Can: Breaking Free from an Abusive Relationship
The abuser’s fear of exposure is often rooted in the fact that they thrive on controlling the narrative and maintaining their false image. If they’ve managed to manipulate their way into hiding their behavior for a long time, the potential for someone to speak out and reveal the truth can be terrifying for them. They… Read More The abuser’s fear of exposure
It has taken five long months to come to terms with the staggering reality of what has transpired—the lies, the distortions, the smear campaign, the silence, and the sheer brutality and cruelty of those involved. Time, they say, is a healer, and with the support of two psychologists, a psychiatrist, a court legal team, and… Read More Domestic Violence Advocacy
Once an abuser has strangled you, the dynamic of the relationship permanently shifts—because you now know they are capable of killing you. This isn’t love. This is survival. 💔 You stop feeling safe and start walking on eggshells.💔 You question every word, every action, trying not to trigger another attack.💔 You may even convince yourself to stay—because leaving feels just as terrifying.… Read More Fear Replaces Love After Strangulation
Yes, unless they are held accountable and undergo serious intervention, abusers who strangle will repeat this behavior—and it often escalates to even more extreme violence. Why Do They Escalate With Each New Partner? 🚩 They Test Boundaries & Learn What They Can Get Away With 🚩 Each Relationship Becomes More Extreme 🚩 Strangulation is Often a Step Toward Homicide 🚩 Abusers… Read More Walking Time Bomb
If you are in an isolated area in a foreign country, unable to speak the language, and your abuser has taken away your passport, car keys, and access to money, then you are in an extremely high-risk situation. This is not just domestic violence—this is coercive control and entrapment. It is a dangerous hostage-like scenario where they are… Read More Increase their power—so they can escalate abuse with no consequences
Strangulation is one of the most serious and dangerous forms of domestic violence, and brushing it off as “but I didn’t kill you” is a terrifying minimization of an attempted murder. Strangulation is not just physical abuse—it is a major red flag that an abuser is willing to exert total control over a victim’s life… Read More What Happens After Strangulation If It’s Brushed Off
When you speak out against abuse, you do more than just protect yourself—you send a powerful message that abuse and violence will not be tolerated. For those who have endured manipulation, gaslighting, and even physical harm, breaking the silence can feel overwhelming. Abusers, and sometimes even their families, will do everything in their power to… Read More Why Abusers (and Their Enablers) Want to Silence You
Trying to strangle someone is extremely dangerous—it’s one of the most severe and life-threatening forms of violence. Even if the person survives, the damage can be lasting and severe. 1. Strangulation vs. Choking—Understanding the Difference Strangulation is considered attempted murder in many legal systems because it can kill someone in seconds or cause permanent damage. 2. How Dangerous… Read More Strangulation vs. Choking—Understanding the Difference
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 