It sounds like a classic case of betrayal, gaslighting, and financial manipulation—all rolled into one. When someone has been having an affair for nearly a year, and their family is actively covering for them, it speaks volumes about their character (or lack thereof). The fact that they’re also trying to project their own behavior onto… Read More A classic case of betrayal
Some individuals, during a divorce, project an image of magnanimity and fairness. They might tell friends, family, or even legal representatives that they want what’s best for everyone involved. They may act as though they are willing to compromise, presenting themselves as the “reasonable” party.
Behind closed doors, however, their actions tell a different story. Secret meetings with lawyers, unreasonable settlement proposals, and efforts to manipulate finances or hide assets all reveal their true intentions: to walk away with as much as possible while leaving their spouse with little to nothing.
This two-faced approach can feel like a gut punch. Not only are you dealing with the end of a decades-long marriage, but you’re also contending with the realization that someone you once trusted is now working against you in the shadows.… Read More The False Generosity in Matrimonial Splits: When Deception Masks Greed
Ignoring Past Contributions: A partner exhibiting greedy behavior may discount or even erase the financial and emotional contributions their spouse made over the years. This can extend to a refusal to acknowledge sacrifices like selling a home or contributing financially to shared goals, including family vacations, household expenses, or investments.… Read More Greed or Opportunism in Divorce: How It Manifests and Why
I would have probably pulled out in the early stages had it not gone this far—if I hadn’t received threats and intimidation, and if someone hadn’t been constantly pushing for divorce. Taking it upon themselves to declare that “the marriage was irretrievable,” they asserted their own agenda, claiming that “he wants to sell the house… Read More The Impact of Threats and Intimidation in Divorce Decisions
Facing the Reality of Discovering Your Partner is Gay After Decades of Marriage… Read More Facing the Reality of Discovering Your Partner is Gay After Decades of Marriage
Sometimes, it’s also about the bigger picture—recognizing that when someone from the other side (family or not) is pushing so hard for a decision to be made, it may reflect their own unresolved issues, perceptions, or even an attempt to control the situation for their own peace of mind. Their motives may not align with yours, and that’s important to keep in mind.… Read More Intrusive and controlling
Using a family member as leverage and making threats of perjury in a divorce case is not just unethical—it could also be legally questionable, especially if it’s being used to intimidate someone into settling for less than they deserve.… Read More Threatening Perjury
When someone reveals they’ve had a girlfriend for six months before the divorce process even starts, it can be a deeply hurtful and disorienting experience. This revelation often raises a whirlwind of emotions—betrayal, anger, confusion, and even a sense of validation if you suspected something was wrong. Here’s how to navigate such a situation with clarity and strength:… Read More Girlfriend
When someone tells their spouse they have a girlfriend (or boyfriend) yet chooses to remain in the marriage, it creates a deeply painful and confusing dynamic. This situation often involves betrayal, emotional neglect, and an utter disregard for the principles of respect and commitment that a marriage is built upon. It reflects a complex mixture of selfishness, indecision, and avoidance of responsibility.… Read More Why Would Someone Admit to Infidelity and Stay in the Marriage?
Staying in the marriage while engaging in infidelity demonstrates a profound lack of respect for the partner, who remains unaware of the truth. The person engaging in adultery prioritizes their own emotional needs over the well-being of their spouse and the sanctity of their marriage.… Read More Why Some People Commit Adultery Before Leaving
