By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate It’s quite something to watch the way some people rewrite history in their own minds — a movie where they’re always the hero, the one everyone supposedly still wants. For the longest time, he truly believed his ex-wife wanted him back. He told me this often, almost… Read More 🌟 When Delusion Replaces Reality 🌟
If you’ve already received threats like “I’ll take you to court”, “you’re ruining our family,” or any other messages designed to silence, shame, or intimidate you… ⚠️ DO NOT RESPOND TO ANY CORRESPONDENCE.Especially if these messages have driven you to suicidal thoughts or worsened your mental health. These tactics are calculated. They are designed to: This is psychological abuse.It is… Read More 🚨 If You’re Being Harassed by Relatives of an Abuser — Don’t Respond. Take Action.
Many famous historical figures have struggled with hidden depression, pain, and abuse while maintaining a public image of success, strength, or happiness. Here are some well-known individuals who endured immense personal suffering behind closed doors: 1. Robin Williams (1951–2014) 2. Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) 3. Vincent van Gogh (1853–1890) 4. Princess Diana (1961–1997) 5. Freddie Mercury… Read More Silencing and Ignoring Abuse
manic-depressive disorder, which is now called bipolar disorder in modern psychology. This is a mental health condition that causes extreme mood swings, including emotional highs (mania or hypomania) and lows (depression). What is Bipolar Disorder? Bipolar disorder is characterized by episodes of: There are different types of bipolar disorder: What Causes Bipolar Disorder? The exact cause isn’t… Read More Manic-depressive disorder
It sounds like you’re dealing with someone who has a history of diagnosed mental health conditions, including paranoia and psychosis, and has previously taken prescribed medication for paranoid thoughts. When someone with these conditions starts projecting blame onto others, making false accusations, and twisting narratives while denying their own actions (such as stalking or changing car hire details),… Read More Paranoia and Psychosis
When the Lights Are On, But Nobody Is In… Read More When the Lights Are On, But Nobody Is In
When you’re emotionally entangled in a relationship, it becomes hard to separate what you know professionally from what you feel personally. You might see the signs when things start to go wrong—manipulation, communication breakdowns, toxic dynamics—but acknowledging them and acting on them are two entirely different things. The emotional investment can cloud judgment, and the fear of disrupting the relationship can keep you stuck.… Read More Being the Therapist
When someone displays hate and coldness in their eyes—not just toward you, but seemingly toward everyone—it’s a sign of deep emotional or psychological disturbance. While this behavior may feel chilling and confusing, it’s essential to consider the possible explanations, including medical or psychological conditions, personal history, or personality traits.… Read More Hate and coldness in their eyes
Abuse over such a prolonged period indicates a lack of accountability and, often, an unwillingness to seek meaningful help or make changes. It also speaks to a disregard for the well-being of others, and that is never acceptable. Mental illness may explain certain struggles, but it does not grant anyone a free pass to harm others repeatedly, especially when opportunities to change or address the issue were likely available over such a long timeframe.
For the person on the receiving end of this abuse, the effects are often devastating, compounded by years of manipulation, control, or harm. Recognizing the abuse for what it is—and understanding that it’s not your responsibility to fix or endure it—is a vital step in healing and reclaiming your life.… Read More Mental Illness as an Excuse
It’s possible that external influences, such as other family members, friends, or even societal narratives, might shape their perception of the person in crisis. If they hear claims of “attention-seeking” or “manipulation,” they might distance themselves based on these biases.
In blended or complex family dynamics, alliances or pressures can form, affecting how people respond.… Read More Ignoring Pleas for Help
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 