Category: Brainwashing – Mind Control

Brainwashing and mind control are terms that are often used to describe manipulative techniques aimed at influencing or controlling an individual’s thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors. These terms are sometimes used interchangeably, but they have different connotations.

Sadistic Tendencies or Emotional Cruelty

Forcing someone to relive trauma, especially when they weren’t present for it, and causing them significant emotional harm—can be deeply troubling. There are several reasons why someone might engage in such harmful behavior, though none of them justify the emotional damage inflicted. Understanding their motivations may help shed light on the dynamics of the situation, though it’s important to remember that this kind of behavior is wrong and damaging.… Read More Sadistic Tendencies or Emotional Cruelty

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Police Intervention

Coercive Control: In countries like the UK, coercive control is a specific offense under the Serious Crime Act 2015. This law covers patterns of controlling, coercive, or abusive behavior in intimate or family relationships. If the coercive behavior involves manipulating someone’s mental state or restricting their freedom, the police could potentially take action, even without physical violence.

Drug Supply: Providing drugs, such as ketamine, is illegal in most jurisdictions. The person supplying the drugs for free, especially as a form of emotional blackmail, would be committing a crime. If this is reported, the police would likely be more focused on the drug supply aspect, as it’s a clear legal violation.

Vulnerable Individuals: If the person trying to quit drugs is seen as vulnerable (which is likely in a case of addiction), the police and other authorities may treat the situation with even more urgency. Drug addiction can increase a person’s vulnerability to abuse and exploitation, which could amplify the seriousness of the coercive control.… Read More Police Intervention

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When control become dangerously blurred

Lonely and Isolated Themselves: The manipulator may be extremely isolated and fearful of being abandoned, leading them to latch onto the person in rehab as their primary (or only) source of emotional connection. They might have an untreated mental illness, such as depression or anxiety, that fuels their need to keep the other person close at all costs.

Struggling with Their Own Trauma: Often, people who manipulate others have unresolved trauma or emotional wounds of their own. Instead of addressing their pain, they may seek control over someone else as a way of avoiding their own feelings of helplessness.

Subconsciously Afraid of Being Left Behind: The manipulator might see the other person’s recovery as a threat. If the person in rehab gets better, they may move on with their life and leave the manipulator behind, worsening their feelings of loneliness and abandonment. To prevent this, they may subtly sabotage the recovery process.

Addicted Themselves: In some cases, the manipulator may also be struggling with addiction. They may encourage continued drug use because they’re not ready to give up their own substance use, and they feel safer in a dynamic where both people are using.… Read More When control become dangerously blurred

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How to Identify Covert Control Disguised as Help

Guilt as a Tool: A hallmark of manipulative behavior disguised as help is the use of guilt to maintain control. For example, a person might say, “I’m only doing this because I care about you,” while making the recovering individual feel guilty for needing help or for mistakes they’ve made in the past. True support empowers someone to grow and make independent choices, while covert control keeps them feeling indebted or ashamed.

Conditional Support: Someone who truly cares offers unconditional support. In contrast, a person who is manipulating will offer help conditionally, often expecting obedience or compliance in return. If the recovering person doesn’t do what is expected, the “help” might be withdrawn or turned into a point of contention.

Undermining Confidence: A manipulative person often subtly undermines the recovering individual’s confidence under the guise of “helping” them avoid further mistakes. They might repeatedly bring up past failures or weaknesses, saying things like, “You can’t trust yourself to handle this,” or “You know you’ve always messed up before.” This creates dependency on the manipulator for decision-making or emotional support, all while eroding self-trust.

Isolation as “Protection”: Manipulative individuals might try to isolate the person in rehab from others who could offer real support by framing it as a way of “protecting” them. They might suggest that other people “don’t really understand you” or “will only hurt you,” encouraging dependence on them alone. This isolation further enhances their control.… Read More How to Identify Covert Control Disguised as Help

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The Toxic Enabler

Mindful of Re-Traumatization: Some well-meaning people may think that by repeatedly confronting a person with their past mistakes or traumas, they are encouraging them to change. However, this can lead to re-traumatization. Reliving trauma over and over without therapeutic support can intensify feelings of helplessness and despair, pushing the person closer to relapse or even suicide. Instead, focus should be on healing and moving forward, rather than rehashing painful memories.… Read More The Toxic Enabler

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Projection of Trauma

Being driven to drugs or alcohol by someone else’s mental health issues and trauma projections is a deeply painful and complex experience. It highlights the toxic emotional dynamics that can arise in close relationships when trauma goes unhealed and unresolved. Breaking free requires a balance of boundary-setting, support, and self-care, along with a recognition that you are not responsible for carrying someone else’s emotional baggage. By reclaiming your emotional space, you can begin to heal and seek healthier ways to cope with the emotional burdens life brings.… Read More Projection of Trauma

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Escaping Emotional Overload

If someone is repeatedly reminded of their trauma, whether through specific triggers or interactions with others, they may feel trapped in a cycle of emotional pain. In this state, drugs can seem like an alluring option to numb those overwhelming feelings. Substances can provide a temporary sense of relief, peace, or even euphoria, pulling them away from their persistent distress.

Several factors play into why drug use becomes a go-to for some:… Read More Escaping Emotional Overload

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Re-traumatization

When someone continually reminds you of your trauma, it can cause deep emotional harm, re-traumatizing you and keeping you stuck in a cycle of pain. It impedes healing, reinforces negative beliefs, and can lead to emotional exhaustion, anxiety, depression, and even physical health problems. Setting boundaries, seeking supportive relationships, and working through your trauma with a therapist can help you protect yourself and create the space you need to heal. You deserve to live free from the weight of your past, and no one should have the power to hold you in it.… Read More Re-traumatization

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Hacking a persons social media account

Unauthorized Access: Gaining access to someone else’s account without their permission is a violation of privacy and computer security laws.

Identity Theft or Impersonation: By using someone else’s account to send messages, you’re impersonating them, which can lead to charges of identity theft or fraud, depending on the nature of the messages.

Cybercrime Laws: Many countries have specific laws that criminalize hacking or unauthorized access to computer systems, networks, or accounts. Violating these laws can result in severe penalties, including fines and imprisonment.

Harassment or Defamation: If the messages you send cause harm, distress, or damage someone’s reputation, you could also face legal consequences for harassment, defamation, or causing emotional harm.… Read More Hacking a persons social media account

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