Author: Linda C J Turner

Linda C J Turner - Your Journey to Emotional Wellness | Emotional Trauma Therapist | EMDR | CBT | NLP |

The Psychology & Neuroscience of Love-Bombing

What it is, why it works, and what it often predicts Love-bombing is the rapid delivery of intense affection, attention, praise, promises, and emotional closeness early in a relationship. It feels intoxicating, validating, and deeply bonding. But neuroscience shows this isn’t accidental — it is neurochemical manipulation, whether conscious or unconscious. 1. Dopamine & Attachment Hijacking Love-bombing… Read More The Psychology & Neuroscience of Love-Bombing

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Beware the Family Who Worships Image Over Integrity

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

A Neuroscience and Psychology Perspective Beware entering a family system that places image, status, and appearance above truth, ethics, and emotional responsibility. Because sooner or later, the very moral code they use to impress the outside world will be turned inward — and used against you. At first, such families can appear impressive.Successful. Respected. Polished.They… Read More Beware the Family Who Worships Image Over Integrity

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When Accusation Becomes Confession: A Reflection on Projection, Power, and Truth

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

There is a particular kind of accusation that reveals more about the accuser than the accused.Especially when the charge is money-grabbing — delivered loudly, publicly, and without a shred of evidence — by someone whose own history contains proven financial crimes. This is not irony.This is psychology. When people point fingers, it is worth remembering the old… Read More When Accusation Becomes Confession: A Reflection on Projection, Power, and Truth

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Happy at last

There is no greater joy than seeing your children happy and at peace, especially after all they endured.Years of abuse and alienation tried to steal their light — but it didn’t succeed.To witness their healing, their laughter, their calm, is everything a mother could ever wish for.

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1) A Psychological Profile of Premeditated Abusers

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Understanding the Psychology of Conscious Harm and Strategic Self-Protection Not all abuse is impulsive. Some abusers know exactly what they are doing. They are aware of their patterns.They recognise their cycles.They anticipate escalation.And instead of choosing healing, accountability, or change — they choose strategy. This is the psychology of premeditated abuse. 1. Core Psychological Traits Premeditated abusers typically… Read More 1) A Psychological Profile of Premeditated Abusers

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The Trauma of Realising You Were Never Meant to Stay

One of the most devastating discoveries a survivor can make is this: That the person knew, from the beginning,that they would eventually leave. Not because the relationship might fail.Not because of uncertainty. But because they knew their abusive behaviour would surface again — and they prepared for it. This realisation often feels more shattering than the… Read More The Trauma of Realising You Were Never Meant to Stay

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The Cost of Living From the False Self

A Jungian & Trauma-Informed Perspective The false self is not a lie.It is a survival adaptation. It forms when authenticity feels unsafe — when belonging, attachment, approval, or protection require performance, compliance, emotional suppression, or self-erasure. In Jungian terms, this becomes the persona: the socially acceptable mask we wear to survive, adapt, and belong. In trauma… Read More The Cost of Living From the False Self

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Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex?

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Why It’s Impossible With an Abuser A Trauma-Informed Psychological Perspective In healthy breakups, friendship can sometimes develop.In abusive relationships, friendship is not possible — and attempting it often causes ongoing harm. This is not bitterness.It is psychological reality. 1. Friendship Requires Safety — Abuse Destroys Safety True friendship requires: Abuse destroys all five. An abusive dynamic is… Read More Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex?

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A Trauma-Informed Understanding of Why Many Men Suffer in Silence

Many abused men never tell anyone what they have endured. Not friends.Not family.Not therapists.Not authorities. This silence is not weakness.It is nervous-system survival. 1. Why So Many Abused Men Stay Silent From early childhood, many men are conditioned to believe: This conditioning shapes the nervous system to associate emotional exposure with danger, shame, and rejection. So when… Read More A Trauma-Informed Understanding of Why Many Men Suffer in Silence

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