Aging removes the buffers that once kept cruelty contained.
🧠 Neurological factors
- Reduced prefrontal flexibility
- Lower dopamine baseline
- Less emotional novelty available
- Increased fear of loss (status, health, control)
Cruelty becomes a compensatory strategy.
🔁 Behavioural consequences
As aging progresses:
- patience decreases
- tolerance for autonomy in others shrinks
- control behaviours intensify
- bitterness and rigidity increase
If cruelty was already present:
➡️ aging often amplifies it.
This is why late-life escalation is common in long-term abusive dynamics.
