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| ❌ **GRINCH TACTICS** | 🔄 | ✅ **YOUR PROTECTIONS** |
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🎭 **Guilt-tripping** → 🛡 **Set boundaries & remind yourself of your rights**
🌀 **Gaslighting** → 📝 **Log events; trust your memory and feelings**
🙅 **Emotional withdrawal** → 🏠 **Maintain routines & social support**
⚡ **Creating conflict** → 🤐 **Grey rock; don’t engage in arguments**
🗡 **Criticism & sabotage** → 💖 **Self-care, affirmations, emotional distance**
🎁 **Holiday manipulation** → 🎯 **Plan safe activities; have exit strategies & support**

💡 **Visual cues:**
– **Red icons/boxes** = Abuser tactics
– **Green icons/boxes** = Your countermeasures
– **Arrows** = Show direct connection from tactic → your protection

📌 **Quick Holiday Survival Tips:**
– Keep **phone notes or a mini-journal** for real-time logging
– **Visualize your boundaries** as a protective shield
– Celebrate **small wins and moments of joy**
– **Lean on trusted friends** during stressful gatherings

This version works like a mini poster you can print, keep on your desk, or save to your phone for **instant reassurance and clarity**.

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If you like, I can also **turn this into an actual color-coded image with boxes, arrows, and icons** ready for download—it’ll look even more like a true infographic. Do you want me to do that next?