You know them:
💸 Wants payment for everything
🤷♂️ Does the bare minimum… even in a marriage
🛑 Never lifts a finger unless it benefits them
💔 Emotional support? Nope, not in stock
🤑 Everything is a transaction
Your brain says: “This is not normal.”
Neuroscience agrees: your mirror neurons are trying to help, but theirs are on permanent vacation. 🏖️
Why? Their brains only reward gain, not giving. Dopamine hits when they take, not when they connect. Science, folks.
😂 And the irony? They complain when you don’t give…
✅ Solution: Boundaries.
- Say NO without guilt ✋
- Help only when YOU want 💖
- Protect your nervous system — it deserves oxytocin, not eye-rolls 😎
Generosity is beautiful.
Being used is exhausting.
Keep your kindness for brains that actually respond. 🧠✨
