🔎 Financial Abuse Checklist (with Documentation Guide)

Type of AbuseExamplesTypical SignsPossible Evidence to Collect
Direct Control of MoneyTaking wages/benefits; restricting bank account access; demanding receipts.Victim has no bank card; must ask for money; feels like a child seeking permission.Bank account access logs; text messages/emails about “allowance”; written notes of forced requests.
Hidden Assets & DeceptionSecret accounts; transferring assets to others; offshore property.Sudden unexplained wealth; evasiveness about finances; missing paperwork.Financial disclosure forms; property records; company ownership documents; hidden account statements.
Economic SabotagePreventing partner from working; ruining credit; debts in victim’s name.Poor credit score; unexplained loans/bills; frequent job loss linked to partner interference.Employment records; HR complaints; debt collection letters; credit reports; loan documents.
Property & Asset ControlPutting house/car in abuser’s name only; selling assets without consent.Victim has no legal claim to shared home; assets disappear before separation.Property deeds; car registration; sales contracts; inheritance documents; insurance payout records.
Manipulation of Legal/Financial SystemsRefusing disclosure in divorce; hiding pensions/bonuses; using shell companies.Incomplete financial records in court; sudden bankruptcy claims; inconsistent lifestyle vs declared income.Court filings; pension statements; payroll slips; business registration documents; tax returns.
Day-to-Day Financial AbuseDenying money for food/healthcare; taking children’s savings; forced signatures.Lack of essentials (food, medication, transport); unpaid bills despite family income.Medical receipts; utility bills; school fee letters; photographs of empty fridge or lack of essentials; witness statements.

⚠️ Note: Evidence doesn’t need to be perfect — even small things like screenshots of text messages, diary notes, or photos of unpaid bills can strengthen a case when patterns are shown over time.

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