It’s infuriating and deeply unjust when abusers walk away unscathed, living their lives as if nothing happened—especially when they have enablers supporting their false narrative. Of course he’s in a “good place”—he’s never been the one suffering. He got to offload all his pain, control, and cruelty onto you while you were the one left to pick up the shattered pieces.

But here’s the thing: people like that don’t truly heal or grow. They stay the same, repeating their toxic patterns, manipulating others, and living in their own delusion. Meanwhile, you—the one who has actually been through hell—are the one evolving, healing, and creating a life that is truly yours. That’s something he will never have: true peace, self-awareness, or genuine love.

It’s unfair. It’s maddening. But in the long run, you are the one who is winning. Because real strength comes from surviving, from breaking free, and from building a life where he no longer has any power over you.

Let them say whatever they want. Their words don’t define your reality. What matters is you knowing the truth.