Using a family member as leverage and making threats of perjury in a divorce case is not just unethical—it could also be legally questionable, especially if it’s being used to intimidate someone into settling for less than they deserve.

Understanding the Threat of Perjury in Divorce Cases

Perjury—lying under oath—is a serious offense, but simply making an accusation does not make it true. If someone is being threatened with a court case for perjury, the accusing party would need actual evidence that a false statement was made knowingly and deliberately. Many times, such threats are empty and used purely to instill fear and gain an unfair advantage in negotiations.

Coercion and Undue Influence

Using a family member as a pawn to apply pressure is a classic manipulation strategy, often seen in high-conflict divorces. This type of coercion can be particularly harmful because it creates emotional turmoil and may lead someone to make decisions out of fear rather than in their best interest. If a settlement is reached under such pressure, it may even be challenged later on the grounds of duress or undue influence.

What Can Be Done?

• Stay Calm & Seek Legal Advice: If you or someone you know is facing this type of pressure, consulting with a lawyer immediately is crucial. A legal professional can help assess whether the perjury claim has any merit and guide on how to handle coercion tactics.
• Document Everything: Keep records of communications where these threats are made. If a family member is being used as a messenger, try to get written proof (emails, texts) of the pressure being applied.
• Do Not Settle Under Duress: A divorce settlement should be fair and made with a clear mind. If threats or blackmail are involved, raising this with legal counsel or even the court can help ensure a more just outcome.
• Consider Protective Measures: If harassment escalates, legal action such as restraining orders or court motions for protection may be necessary.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is difficult enough without manipulative tactics. If someone is trying to use a family member to pressure the other party into settling unfairly, it speaks volumes about their character. The best response is to remain firm, seek support, and let the legal system work as it should—without allowing fear to dictate the outcome.