When you first meet someone, you often see the carefully curated image they present. They share stories of success, challenges, and accomplishments, sometimes even painting their previous relationships in a way that garners sympathy or admiration. But over time, cracks start to form. You might notice inconsistencies in their stories, exaggerated claims of self-made success, or disparaging comments about their past partners that feel excessive or bitter.

Eventually, these inconsistencies may add up, and the truth reveals itself: this person’s achievements or status may be exaggerated, and they may not have been the “victim” in past relationships but rather the beneficiary of someone else’s support, kindness, or efforts. This unraveling is both a betrayal of your trust and a harsh insight into their lack of accountability. The realization can leave you feeling deceived and uncertain about what—or who—to believe.… Read More The Unraveling: Discovering Deception