✅ If you already filed first When one spouse files for divorce in Spain, that filing initiates the legal process — it becomes the active case.If your partner files a year later, the court generally will not open a new, separate case. Instead, the judge will usually: Spain’s legal system doesn’t allow two divorce cases for the same marriage to run simultaneously. The… Read More ⚖️ 1. Legal Perspective: Divorce Filings in Spain
In high-conflict situations — especially around divorce, family disputes, or separation — it’s not unusual for one person to threaten “I’ll take you to court for defamation” when something unflattering or uncomfortable is said.But often, these threats aren’t about justice or truth. They’re about control, fear, and power. ⚖️ 1. The Legal Smoke Screen In genuine defamation cases, the… Read More Weaponising “Defamation”: When Legal Threats Become Emotional Control
When a family member threatens to take you to court just before a financial settlement, it’s rarely about truth or fairness — it’s about control. These threats are psychological weapons, designed to unnerve you and trigger fear, confusion, or guilt right when you need clarity most. It’s a tactic — and often, a familiar one.Because those… Read More For Warned Is Forearmed: The Psychology of Legal Threats and Intimidation
In Spain, the legal system takes a firm stance against sexual abuse involving minors, with a comprehensive framework designed to prevent, prosecute, and provide redress for such crimes. The approach encompasses criminal penalties, victim protection, mandatory reporting, and evolving legislative reforms to address emerging challenges. Legal Framework and Penalties Spain’s Penal Code delineates various offenses… Read More Legal Framework and Penalties
If you have a mobile phone in Spain that you suspect contains illegal images—such as child sexual abuse material (CSAM), non-consensual intimate images, or other illicit content—it is crucial to handle the situation with care and report it through the appropriate legal channels. Here’s how you can proceed: 🛡️ Reporting Illegal Content in Spain 1. Spanish… Read More 🛡️ Reporting Illegal Content in Spain
1. Spanish National Police (Policía Nacional) The Policía Nacional operates a dedicated Cybercrime Unit (Unidad de Investigación Tecnológica – UIT) that handles cases involving digital harassment, cyberbullying, and the distribution of non-consensual intimate images. You can report such incidents online through their official website: Alternatively, you can contact them directly: 2. Mossos d’Esquadra (Catalonia) If you are in… Read More 🛡️ Reporting Offensive or Illegal Content in Spain
Below is a long and comprehensive glossary of Spanish legal and psychological terms related to domestic violence, sexual offences, and court proceedings, especially relevant for survivors navigating the Spanish legal system or preparing for court. This can be a powerful tool to empower understanding and confidence in such difficult settings. 🛑 GLOSSARY OF SPANISH TERMS: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE & SEXUAL… Read More Spanish legal and psychological terms
In a world that often demands conformity while privately rewarding deception, many individuals find themselves leading a double life — concealing parts of who they are, what they do, or whom they love. Whether it’s secret relationships, hidden addictions, concealed identities, or living under a false persona to maintain control or avoid consequences — the act of… Read More The Hidden Cost of Living a Double Life: Psychological, Neurological, and Legal Perspectives
The Most Frequently Asked Question I’ve Received Lately — Answered Clearly and Responsibly In the past two months alone, I’ve been asked this question over 500 times:“What is the minimum legal age of sexual consent in Spain?” It’s a vital question, and it deserves a clear, respectful, and well-informed answer — especially for those working… Read More What Is the Legal Age of Consent in Spain?
Using the Legal System to Harass, Intimidate, and Punish Survivors You escaped the relationship.You survived the emotional abuse.You picked yourself up and started to heal.But now — you’re being dragged through courts, defamed in public, or threatened with legal action. This is not a coincidence.It’s not just “a messy breakup.”It’s called legal coercion — and it’s a form of… Read More ⚖️💣 Legal Coercion: When the Abuse Follows You into the Courtroom
