The Neurophysiology of Trauma

Trauma is not just psychological—it physically changes the brain and body. Key Brain Structures Involved Structure Role in Trauma Amygdala Detects threats; hyperactive in trauma → fear, hypervigilance, emotional reactivity Hippocampus Contextualizes memories; trauma can reduce volume → fragmented, intrusive memories Prefrontal Cortex (PFC) Executive function, emotional regulation; trauma → impaired top-down control Anterior Cingulate Cortex… Read More The Neurophysiology of Trauma

What Is Trauma‑Informed Care?

At its core, trauma‑informed care (TIC) means understanding how trauma affects a person’s brain, body, behaviour, and relationships — and using that understanding to shape how support is offered. Instead of asking: “What’s wrong with you?”A trauma‑informed approach asks:“What happened to you, and how can we help you feel safe?” This shift changes how people are seen,… Read More What Is Trauma‑Informed Care?

Memory & Trauma Processing

Alcohol can have a profound and often counterproductive impact on trauma recovery, both neurologically and psychologically. Here’s a detailed breakdown: 1. Nervous System Impact Trauma leaves the nervous system hypervigilant. Alcohol: 2. Memory & Trauma Processing Essentially, alcohol blocks the brain from integrating the trauma safely. 3. Emotional Dysregulation 4. Interpersonal Impact 5. Risk of Re-traumatization 6. Why… Read More Memory & Trauma Processing

What “messing up” in trauma really is

When you’re traumatised, your nervous system is not choosing behaviour — it’s protecting you. So what looks like “wrecking the relationship” is often: None of this is character failure.It’s unhealed threat memory meeting intimacy. Why trauma sabotages something that matters Trauma does three things in relationships: 1. It mistakes closeness for danger When connection deepens, the body remembers:… Read More What “messing up” in trauma really is

1. Why abusers mistake silence for submission

Abusers are trained by cause–effect feedback. Earlier in the relationship: So when silence appears, their brain runs an old rule: “Silence means it’s working.” But post-flip silence is not fear-based.It is attachment shutdown. The misread happens because: So they escalate to “wake you up”: When none of it works, panic sets in. What they feel as loss of controlyou are… Read More 1. Why abusers mistake silence for submission

Safety Signals Are Undermined

When family members join in the abuse — sending threatening emails, insults, or manipulative messages — it creates a compound trauma effect. This goes far beyond emotional pain: it directly affects the nervous system, memory processing, and psychological recovery. Here’s a neuroscience- and psychology-informed breakdown. 1️⃣ Safety Signals Are Undermined Normal function: Family is usually the “safe base” for emotional… Read More Safety Signals Are Undermined

Safety is the soil of healing

When someone continuously breaks a restraining order, it’s not just a legal violation — it’s a direct assault on the nervous system, and it profoundly affects trauma recovery. I’ll break it down using neuroscience and psychology, step by step. 1️⃣ SAFETY SIGNALS ARE DESTROYED Neuroscience Impact: The nervous system never settles, so healing pauses or reverses. 2️⃣ TRAUMA MEMORY REMAINS… Read More Safety is the soil of healing

Why Attention Drops When Survivors Begin to Heal

Trauma Recovery, Post-Abuse Dynamics & the Nervous System For people who have lived through long-term abuse, the shift you’re noticing is not just social — it’s neurobiological and relational. When you were in survival mode, your nervous system, identity, and relationships were organized around threat, appeasement, and endurance. As you heal, that entire structure changes. And not everyone… Read More Why Attention Drops When Survivors Begin to Heal