Tag: Psychology

Genuine Care vs. Transactional Investment

A Psychological & Neuroscience Perspective At the surface, both scenarios look like “time spent with another person.” But deep in the brain, the motives and neurochemical patterns are very different. The difference shapes how the relationship feels, how stable it is, and whether it nourishes or drains you. 1. Investing Time Because You Genuinely Care Psychology: Neuroscience: Emotional Experience: Feels… Read More Genuine Care vs. Transactional Investment

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Missing Someone vs. Avoiding Someone: The Brain Science

1. When You Truly Miss Someone If you’ve been away and genuinely care, your brain naturally craves reconnection. 👉 So if you really missed someone, the natural impulse is to spend quality time together. 2. When You Return but Want Little Time Together If someone comes back from being away and avoids closeness, the message is… Read More Missing Someone vs. Avoiding Someone: The Brain Science

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First Dates

Here’s a practical psychology + neuroscience-based guide to creating the right atmosphere for a first date—so it feels natural, enjoyable, and leaves a lasting positive impression: 🌟 1. Where to Go The brain remembers experiences better when they are tied to novelty, safety, and good emotions. 👗 2. What to Wear First impressions are formed within 7 seconds,… Read More First Dates

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Serial Cheaters and Freeloaders: A Psychological and Neuroscientific Perspective

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment

Some people seem to glide through life, taking from others without giving in return—serial cheaters and emotional or financial freeloaders. Understanding why they behave this way requires a mix of psychology, personality science, and neuroscience. 1. Personality Traits and Psychological Patterns a. Narcissism and Antisocial TraitsMany serial cheaters show strong narcissistic tendencies. They often have: Some… Read More Serial Cheaters and Freeloaders: A Psychological and Neuroscientific Perspective

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Letting go of attachments

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Letting go of attachments—whether to people, possessions, or identities—is a profound challenge. From both neuroscience and psychology perspectives, this difficulty stems from the deep-rooted nature of attachment systems in the brain and the complex interplay between early experiences, emotional regulation, and cognitive patterns. 🧠 The Neuroscience of Attachment Attachment behaviors are deeply embedded in our… Read More Letting go of attachments

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Physical, emotional, and financial abuse.

You want to present evidence in court showing physical, emotional, and financial abuse. Here’s a structured approach for each type with practical steps and evidence you can gather. I’ll break it down clearly so it can serve as both a checklist and a guide for your case. 1. Physical Abuse Definition: Any intentional bodily harm or threat… Read More Physical, emotional, and financial abuse.

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You Are What You Think: How Your Thoughts Shape Your Actions

The saying “you are what you think” isn’t just motivational—it’s rooted in psychology and neuroscience. The way we interpret the world directly influences how we feel, how we behave, and even how our brain wires itself over time. 1. The Psychology of Thoughts → Emotions → Actions In cognitive psychology, this is often described through the cognitive triangle:… Read More You Are What You Think: How Your Thoughts Shape Your Actions

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The Psychological & Neuroscientific Effects of Gratitude for Everyday Joys

🌞 Sunshine 🐕 Connection with Your Dog ☀️ Peace and Calm 💛 Kindness, Softness, Support, Thoughtfulness 🙂 Presence, Smiles, and Laughter 🧠 The Bigger Picture: Neuroplasticity of Daily Gratitude Every time you notice and savour these things — sunshine, your dog, peace, kindness — your brain’s neural pathways for safety and joy strengthen. This is neuroplasticity… Read More The Psychological & Neuroscientific Effects of Gratitude for Everyday Joys

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The Psychology of “Bad Vibes”: Why Some People Rub Others the Wrong Way

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Most of us have had the experience: someone enters a room, and without them saying much, the atmosphere shifts. People feel uneasy, guarded, or repelled. Later, when the relationship ends, friends and colleagues confess: “We never liked him. He gave off bad vibes.” But what exactly are those bad vibes — and why do people often keep them… Read More The Psychology of “Bad Vibes”: Why Some People Rub Others the Wrong Way

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