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What Emotional Freeloading Looks Like

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner © 2025 Linda Carol Turner. Content protected by copyright.
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Emotional freeloading is when someone takes emotional support, care, attention, or stability from another person without giving it back, taking responsibility, or showing genuine empathy in return. It’s not a clinical diagnosis, but it’s a very accurate psychological description of a pattern many people recognise instantly once they’ve lived it. What Emotional Freeloading Looks Like An emotional freeloader: They… Read More What Emotional Freeloading Looks Like

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Psychological entrapment

Negative self‑talk, catastrophising, or repeatedly saying “I’m dying / I’m sick / something terrible will happen” does NOT cause cancer, disability, or physical disease. That is not how biology works. However… What is true — and strongly supported by neuroscience — is that repeatedly telling yourself catastrophic health stories can: So let’s separate science from fear very clearly. ✅ What Repeated Catastrophic Self-Talk Does 1. Rewires your… Read More Psychological entrapment

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Your Thoughts, Actions, and Beliefs Shape Your Reality — A Neuroscience View

— Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner © 2025 Linda Carol Turner. Content protected by copyright.
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What you’re pointing toward is neuroplasticity:the brain literally rewires itself based on the thoughts you repeat, the stories you tell, and the actions you take. This creates a kind of self‑fulfilling loop that can either protect you or harm you, depending on what you reinforce. Here’s how the science explains it: 1. The Brain Believes What You Repeatedly… Read More Your Thoughts, Actions, and Beliefs Shape Your Reality — A Neuroscience View

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Part 3 — When You Tell the Truth That Sounds Unreal

When the time comes for me to reveal who my father was — and the world he moved in — I already know what will happen. People will raise eyebrows.Some will whisper “she’s exaggerating.”Others will say I’m making it up, attention-seeking, dramatising, scare-mongering. But here’s the thing:The people who matter have already seen the evidence.The… Read More Part 3 — When You Tell the Truth That Sounds Unreal

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🧩 NLP Therapy: Reframing the Mind for Lasting Change

— Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Meta Description (for SEO):Discover how NLP therapy at Linda C. J. Turner helps reprogram limiting beliefs, release emotional blocks, and build self-confidence. Transform your inner dialogue and reconnect with your true potential. What is NLP? At Linda C. J. Turner, we believe that healing is as much about how we think as how we feel.NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is a powerful… Read More 🧩 NLP Therapy: Reframing the Mind for Lasting Change

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The Hidden Self: How People Mask True Feelings Through Posture and Expression

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

When we meet someone, the way they carry themselves—posture, facial expression, and overall body language—often tells a deeper story than words can convey. Recent observations from a session with a psychologist illustrate how subtle cues can reveal hidden vulnerabilities, even in those who seem confident and composed. Standing Tall, Feeling Small During a session, my… Read More The Hidden Self: How People Mask True Feelings Through Posture and Expression

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True Compatibility: Alignment Over Control

Dopamine Finds a Familiar Path The reward circuits light up — not from novelty, but from recognition. The brain remembers every shared laugh, every rescue, every late-night talk. Now it attaches desire to the same neural pathways that once held comfort. Excitement without fear. That’s rare chemistry.

Many people enter relationships believing that love requires compromise. While compromise is essential for practical aspects of partnership, true compatibility is not about bending yourself to fit someone else’s world — it’s about alignment between your values, goals, and authentic self. The Psychology of Self-Abandonment Self-abandonment occurs when you suppress or compromise your core identity… Read More True Compatibility: Alignment Over Control

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