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Emerging patterns and technological abuse

🚨 A violent incident in Spain 🧑‍⚖️ Policy debate in Spain ⚖️ France — domestic violence systems under review 🪪 Broader European context (recent data and debates) EU-level commitment and legal framework Statistical trends Calls for prevention and early intervention Controversies around withdrawal from protections 📊 Social dynamics and reporting Under‑reporting remains a concern Feminicide studies 📌 Takeaway… Read More Emerging patterns and technological abuse

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Keeping it in the family

When bullying, abuse, and harassment “run in the family,” you’re not dealing with isolated bad behaviour — you’re dealing with a relational system that has normalised cruelty as a way of bonding, regulating power, and enforcing loyalty. This is recognised in psychology, trauma work, and increasingly in law. What it actually means when abuse runs in a family It… Read More Keeping it in the family

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Harassment or bullying by an abuser’s family when there is a restraining order in place is taken very seriously.

Here’s the clear, grounded breakdown — legally and practically. 1. Core rule (this matters most) A restraining order cannot be bypassed through family, friends, or third parties. If the family: 👉 This may constitute a breach of the restraining order by proxy. Courts call this indirect contact or contact through third parties. 2. What counts as harassment/bullying in this… Read More Harassment or bullying by an abuser’s family when there is a restraining order in place is taken very seriously.

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Receiver and recorder, not investigator

If someone who knows your ex well sends you a letter describing concerns about your ex’s behaviour, here’s how to handle it safely and appropriately: 1. Treat it as information, not evidence 2. Read and document carefully 3. Do not share the letter publicly 4. Assess immediate risk 5. Prepare a neutral, factual report Important: Avoid adding opinions, assumptions,… Read More Receiver and recorder, not investigator

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Grooming of minors

What it is:A deliberate process where an adult (or older youth) builds trust with a child to prepare them for sexual exploitation. How it happens: Key legal point:👉 Grooming itself is a crime, even before any sexual images, contact, or abuse occur. Intent matters, not whether the child “agreed” or understood. Sextortion of minors What it is:Using sexual images, videos, or messages… Read More Grooming of minors

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SAFEST ways to expose predators & scammers

1️⃣ Official reporting platforms (highest protection) These create records that protect future victims. If financial exploitation or fraud is involved: If coercive control / emotional abuse / exploitation: 👉 These reports stack over time. One report alone may not act — patterns do. 2️⃣ Dating platform & social media reporting Most predators rely on platforms staying silent. Report directly inside the app: What… Read More SAFEST ways to expose predators & scammers

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Cycle of predatory behaviour

Key Warning Signs Behavioral Pattern Summary Potential Red Flags for Background Checks Protective Measures Key Takeaway Predatory partners often appear charming and professional while hiding a pattern of financial exploitation and relational control.Early verification, observation, and maintaining autonomy are critical to protecting both financial and emotional well-being.

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The Tactic: Exploitation of Resources Without Reciprocity

Some people use charm, intimacy, or emotional manipulation to gain financial, domestic, or logistical support from their partner while contributing little or nothing in return. Common behaviours: Example:A partner moves in and promises to “help with the bills later,” but never does, while continuing to enjoy meals, utilities, and travel expenses. 2️⃣ The Risk: Long-Term Financial and… Read More The Tactic: Exploitation of Resources Without Reciprocity

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