One would hope that people could see the turning point before they go too far. Therapy, self-reflection, or even a simple conversation with a compassionate friend can be transformative. But not everyone has the insight or support to pause and consider the bigger picture. For some, this can feel like they’re simply carrying forward patterns they’ve seen or endured themselves, possibly even patterns of trauma and hurt.

It’s hard to witness, and harder still to be on the receiving end of that kind of negativity. Setting firm boundaries is crucial, and for those who are able, extending a degree of compassion can sometimes be a way to shift the dynamic. But sadly, sometimes the only thing that stops people in that downward spiral is a harsh consequence—like facing legal repercussions or a serious life-altering loss.… Read More When the Law steps in